What should I do when my child is upset? (2)

There were two points in front (what should I do when the child is in a mood? (Part I)), let’s continue to talk. 3. Timely Control of Children We need to give children room to control and adjust their emotions, so that children can get exercise and study, and also let children get a sense of autonomy. However, when children lose control of their emotions and lose control of themselves, adults need to help control them immediately. This is the protection of children: On the one hand, children should not be allowed to do stupid things to hurt themselves, such as not being able to harm themselves, or throwing cups to cause fragments to hurt themselves; On the other hand, Read More …

What should I do when my child is upset? (Part I)

Children are upset, which is believed to be something every parent will encounter. How should you deal with the [unreasonable] Xiong Haizi? What principles do you need to stick to? According to the importance of each principle and the degree to which it is easy to be ignored, Dr. Clove recommends the following principles to parents. Step 1 Take care of yourself first The reason why this article is put first is that it is very easy to ignore and crucial. Similar to the safety instructions on the plane, when the oxygen mask falls down, adults with children should quickly wear it for themselves before wearing it for their children. It takes wisdom to help children deal with emotions, However, Read More …