Do you want to have a second child or not? How to raise two children? You need [methodology for raising a second child]!

Perhaps [preparing for pregnancy] and [raising] are not the topics of your current life, but having a baby is a must for most families. With the opening of the two-child policy, the arrival of the second child and the changes TA will bring have gradually become matters that parents need to consider. Do you want to have a second child or not? What new challenges may parents face? This week, Dr. Clove, together with Zhihu, invited all guests to talk about this topic. Did the guest you want to ask participate in this activity? What do you want to ask about what? 点击这里, 快来参与吧!

What if it doesn’t make sense to the old man with children at home?

Some people say that asking the elderly to take care of their children requires communication and negotiation. However, the essence of negotiation is to compromise with each other, but it is very difficult for the elderly who think that [I am a former person, of course I know how to raise children] to compromise. This is also why there are many ways to solve the problem in theory, but they do not work in reality. Many elders find it difficult to accept new ideas. One of the prerequisites for negotiation is to clarify each other’s views and understand each other’s views. However, this generation of old people often cannot understand new and scientific viewpoints. Scientific experiments and data are invisible Read More …

When the child is born, should it be mainly taken by grandparents or parents?

Editor’s note: [Who will take the children] is often a topic that easily causes family disputes. Grandparents are [experienced] and parents are the most nervous people. Who is more suitable? This content comes from the round table activity of “Methodology for Raising Two Children” jointly organized by Dr. Clove and Zhihu. How to nurse, how to soak milk powder, how to change diapers, how to dress children, how to coax children to sleep? How to do children with fever, cough and diarrhea? These old people all understand, while young people will learn. Who is more suitable as the main caretaker? As a new parent, he should be the main supporter. Whether it is a child’s daily life problem or a Read More …

Do children’s earwax need to be dug? Mom and Dad, don’t do this

Today is the annual “National Ear Care Day” and this year’s publicity theme is “Pay Attention to Children’s Hearing Health”. Today we will talk about “earwax”. Many mothers see earwax in their babies’ ears, and obsessive-compulsive disorder attacks immediately. They have to pay for their children, preferably until they can clean it up. Little imagine, your action is not only unnecessary, superfluous, but also likely to hurt the child’s ears and hearing. Therefore, parents are not recommended to pick out their children’s ears. Why can’t the baby’s ears be pulled out? Children’s ear canal is narrower than that of adults, and skin immunity is more fragile. Improper ear removal may even cause otitis externa. In fact, normal earwax will not Read More …

Is it really easier to be a [full-time parent]?

Editor’s Note: This content comes from the round table activity of “Methodology for Raising Two Children” jointly organized by Dr. Clove and Zhihu. Click to view the details of the activity. Is the so-called relatively relaxed and [relative] standard what? If you cannot say clearly, the answer will inevitably vary. Therefore, I think that to say clearly whether it is easy or not, the key is to look at three factors. 1. Is there enough motivation Employees of start-up companies are generally very busy, but because they have enough motivation or interest as motivation, they will feel very happy even though they are busy. Similarly, different people have different talents and interests. If they like children very much and are Read More …

Which is better, [only one] or [one more]?

Perhaps [preparing for pregnancy] and [raising] are not the topics of your current life, but having a baby is an experience that most families have. With the opening of the two-child policy, the arrival of the second child and the changes that TA will bring have gradually become matters that young parents need to consider. A few days ago, Dr. Clove and Zhihu jointly held a Zhihu Round Table to discuss the new challenges faced by parents in the process of raising a second child. Want to know more about raising a second child? Welcome to click to read the original text and go to Zhihu Round Table, Methodology for Raising Two Children. [One-child Family] is a product of China’s Read More …