A few days ago, Dr. Clove saw such a message:
According to a report in the American Journal of Women’s Health, American scholars have summed up a [formula of sex frequency] based on the influence of age factors on sexual ability.
Sex frequency = first digit of age × 9
That is, multiply the ten digits of one’s age by 9, and the ten digits of the product are the number of days that a sex cycle lasts, while the individual digits are the proper sex frequency.
In order to feel more intuitively, others have compiled a table according to this formula:
Facing this form, think about yourself again…
As a result, Dr. Clove quickly invited real professionals to tell everyone in detail.
Animals only care about frequency, human beings…
When intensity encounters time, all the problems are frequency.
Perhaps, you have had one or several experiences that made you proud, such as: Lien Chan for three nights, the golden gun did not fall. (Although the opponent may only be his left hand.)
However, when you try to compare yourself with others, a casual look on the Internet will reveal that there are everywhere [shooters] who score hat tricks three times a night.
As a result, suspicion, inferiority complex, plus a little anger, immediately appeared in the bottom of my heart.
In fact, there is no need to mind these at all. Bluffing on frequency is a primary animal instinct, that’s all.
In the animal world, the more times, the more likely it is for females to conceive, thus continuing their genes, which seems to be a reasonable logic.
However, we are human beings, not monkeys or other primates. The main purpose of snapping is not to continue the species.
To do it, the most important thing is to be happy. Too much emphasis on frequency is really not conducive to your happiness.
Is there the most suitable frequency?
Knowing that we can’t force it, we still have many fantasies about frequency. Therefore, it is possible that [a formula calculates the best frequency] at the beginning of the article will appear.
However, this formula cannot be found in various medical literatures, and even if the method itself is concerned, this formula is not scientific.
A 40-year study involving more than 26,000 people published by Dr. Jean Twenge in the United States shows that the frequency of sex life is significantly negatively correlated with age.
The following are the research results of different age groups and the average weekly sex frequency, so that everyone can take their seats accordingly.
- 18 ~ 29 years old, 1.5 times/week 30 ~ 39 years old, 1.5 times/week 40 ~ 49 years old, 1.2 times/week 50 ~ 59 years old, 0.7 times/week (note that 50 years old is an obvious watershed) 60 ~ 69 years old, 0.5 times/week > 70 years old, 0.2 times/week (the elderly also have some, but few)
For the small sample research data of Chinese, similar to this, in the 20-40 age group, about 1.6 times a week.
However, this is only a statistical data, which does not mean that you must follow this standard.
As mentioned earlier, this [most] appropriate frequency is not a number, but your feelings.
The higher the frequency, the better?
Since the purpose of snapping is to feel better, will people with high frequency be happier than people with low frequency?
A Canadian study involving more than 30,000 people gave the exact but negative answer:
The more frequent people are, the happier they are.
In fact, research shows that couples who have sex once a week are happiest.
Carnegie Mellon University’s research even shows that couples who try to increase their frequency are slightly less happy than once a week after twice a week.
Pa Pa Pa is the common physical and spiritual enjoyment of your partner, and it is also an important way to enhance your emotion. Lao Wang and his daughter-in-law next door are not of what reference value to you seven times a week or seven times a week.
The above research also confirms that there is no correlation between frequency and happiness. Then, comparing frequency with others has no positive significance for what except to increase one’s unnecessary psychological burden.
In life, we can improve the [user experience] by exploring different body positions and creating a warm atmosphere.
Remember, the best frequency for each couple is different. Even if this partner is your left hand.
Love is the most important thing.