This month, there is not much that pregnant fathers can do.
Compared with giving gifts, if you can, companionship is more valuable. Accompany her for a walk, accompany her to the prenatal examination, accompany her to the pregnant women’s school, accompany her to learn pregnancy knowledge-of course, gifts such as small jewelry will always be popular.
Let’s get back to the point. After the wife was six months old, did you notice that her stomach suddenly began to grow fiercely?
You’re right, the baby in the belly is also growing fiercely. His body systems are maturing, subcutaneous fat is gradually growing like a balloon, the baby will grow a round face, his eyes will be open, and he can hear your voice.
What should I say to [belly]?
How about it, isn’t it cool? Your baby can hear you!
Close to her belly, you may be confused for a while: What can you say to the baby?
Why is this difficult? The following suggestions are for reference:
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Baby, dad loves you!
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I really want to see you soon!
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Can Dad sing you a song?
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Dad, read you a story. Once upon a time…
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Dad will read the paper to you… … …
When speaking, the voice can be slightly louder and the change of intonation can be obvious. When speaking, you can touch your belly while speaking.
Clean the bathroom, she will feel much better.
As early as a few months ago, her mood was already very uncomfortable and she controlled it.
The little monster in her belly, by this time, made her feel bright and cloudless for a moment, and thunder and lightning for a moment.
In addition to keeping a strong smile and exerting [hugging] (the director loves you …), the most efficient way to reduce the possibility of her yelling at you, throwing things and getting divorced is to clean the toilet.
A simple explanation is: haven’t you noticed how often she goes to and from the bathroom now…
After all, smell affects the mood very much, neatness also affects the mood very much, toilet paper is gone again, which really affects the mood…
In this respect, the minimum effort is to make up for what has been used up and put away what has been used up. If you can afford it and have no time to take care of your family, you can consider hiring part-time workers-problems that can be solved with money are not problems.
You can also have sex in the third trimester of pregnancy.
Cherish it, her chest will basically not be bigger than it is now-of course, you can give an advance notice. In fact, the lactation period will be bigger, but then you will think of a water bag, and when the milk is poured out, you will shrink back.
In the third trimester of pregnancy, you can still have sex, but your movements should be gentle. Unless the doctor explicitly prohibits sex, it is good to follow your sex.
At this stage, her [sexual orientation] is still theoretically unchanged, but don’t think [I can do it when I want].
Finally, this is an absolutely useful advice: respect her wishes.
Do you want a son or a daughter?
Although our laws do not allow gender identification, you can talk about this topic.
In theory, before planning to have a baby, it is better for two people to basically agree on the concept of child education. If not, this can be used as a beginning.
If it is a daughter, do you want to take her to do some what? What if it’s a son? What parts of each other’s imagination do you think may be inappropriate and need to be discussed?
Besides, it’s time to consider that you are going to be how’s father and how’s mother. Are your own father and mother what respectively? Do you want to be how’s father for your son/daughter?
What do you think will make your son/daughter look like a superhero? How would you react if your son would rock and roll in the upstairs room in the middle of the night, or if your daughter was seen holding her boyfriend in a bikini?
Is it a little anxious… don’t be afraid, when parents for the first time, there is no fear. Can’t learn!
In addition to seriously participating in the curriculum of the pregnant women’s school, start reading the article of [Clove Mother] (Public ID: Dingxiangmami). Being a parent requires a lot of knowledge.