Making friends with children is not as simple as you think.

In the eyes of many parents, [making friends with children] is the best answer to parent-child relationship. It’s true that parents and their children become friends, lower their profile, listen to their children’s opinions and respect their choices, but don’t misunderstand the meaning of establishing a relationship with children. Parent-child relationship is much more complicated than friendship. [hello, I’m good, everyone] Friends are by no means the end-result of parent-child relationship. In fact, parents need to do much more than friends. I think to be friends with children is to be undisciplined. If parents treat their children as friends, they will easily fall into the erroneous zone of “not being disciplined”. I have a brother who is ten years older Read More …

The more reasonable you are, the more disobedient the child is.

01 [Eat obediently so that you can grow as tall as your father] [Brush your teeth obediently, otherwise you will suffer from tooth decay and pain.] [Don’t eat ice cream any more, you will catch a cold] ……. When I first started to be a mother, like every textbook mother, I treated my children gently and talked loudly for fear of scaring them. However, the facts tell me that these are useless at all! In the face of all kinds of behaviors that Eva did not cooperate with me, such as not eating well and not sleeping well, I reminded myself to be patient 10,000 times in my heart, but I still couldn’t help yelling at Eva……. It was not Read More …

With baby waist soreness and backache? These 4 moves will help you relieve

If you want to say the most painful thing after being a mother, waist pain can definitely enter the top three. The key is, with a sore old waist, to hold the baby, nurse, do housework… Many mothers wonder: There was no such problem before. How did they start to suffer from backache after becoming a mother? Why do you always like to find Baoma for waist pain? Pregnancy can break the mechanical balance of the body’s core. As the baby in the womb grows bigger and bigger, the extensor muscles in the waist need to provide extra force [drag] to the uterus (imagine the feeling of backpack on the front side of the body), which can easily cause lumbago Read More …

You think heroin is the only drug? Pay attention to the commonly used drugs around, because the United States is in a state of emergency.

Drugs are not only heroin that makes you feel distant immediately and turns pale at the mention of it, but also common painkillers, cough medicines and anesthetics prescribed by doctors to patients within the scope permitted by law. Those cough water, which can be bought at any time in Chinese pharmacies, contains codeine and ephedrine. Many teenagers can get pleasure after drinking it and gradually become [drug addicts] without realizing it. U.S. President Trump announced in August this year that the country has entered a state of public health emergency due to the opioid analgesic crisis. This is the first time that the United States has initiated a state of public health emergency due to a public health incident. Is Read More …

Insisting on scalp massage, will something magical really happen?

When it comes to scalp massage, everyone thinks of relaxation and pleasure. Scalp massage is simple to operate, giving people a relaxed and pleasant feeling, and its seamless combination with the concept of health preservation [pure natural without addition] has always been given high hopes. When dizziness and headache occur, we will unconsciously massage the scalp to relieve the symptoms. Barbershops with a little service will give you a comfortable scalp massage when shampooing your hair. What are the real benefits of scalp massage and what are our own YY? Is there any harm? Can scalp massage relieve pressure? Scalp massage is one of the physical therapy methods to relieve pressure, which can relieve some common physical abnormalities related to Read More …

Sprain, should hot compress or cold compress?

Never apply hot compress when you just sprained! First of all, you should rest more and don’t move the sprained place. During the rest, you can raise the sprained part to a position higher than the heart. Then there is cold compress! Within 48 hours, you can wrap the ice bag with a towel or use iced mineral water to cold compress the sprained position, and only after 48 hours can you hot compress. If conditions permit, the injured joint can also be wrapped with elastic bandage, which can be tightened properly to reduce swelling under pressure. It’s really painful. You can also take an analgesic. If the condition of the sprained area deteriorates, for example, the above methods have Read More …

With this timetable for the development of infants aged 0-12 months, most of the anxiety of parents will be solved.

The first year of the baby’s birth can be described as [one day at a time]: Wow, the baby will smile at me! Wow, the baby can sit on his own! Wow, the baby can stand up! Wow, the baby will call mother! Every change of the baby affects the hearts of the parents, The first year of feeding the baby is also the most anxious year for mothers. Presumably, many parents will look at their babies more than once and then at other people’s babies, [why do other people’s families have XXX, but my family will not…] Thoughtful clove mother, compiled a 1-12 month-old baby’s development index. In contrast, let you know more about the baby’s development, can solve Read More …

90% of the people will ignore the disease, which hurts really [deadly]

For an eater, no what can stop his yearning for delicious food. Hot pot barbecue malatang, egg tart pizza chocolate, pudding cone ice cream… are all naked temptations. But once there is a tooth injury, no matter how strong the desire is, it is lost to: Toothache Although it is not an instant ten thousand arrows pierce the heart, it can erode the body in a gentle breeze and drizzle, bit by bit, and it is painful. How much can toothache hurt? Even if modern medicine is advanced and developed, the answer is a word [pain] that cannot be described at all: pain to deformation, pain to blur… Ancient people were also deeply troubled. Poet Bai Juyi, with the word Read More …

A collection of 90 children’s songs can easily teach babies how to speak.

As for learning to speak, it is generally accepted that one way is to create a language environment for children to be familiar with speaking. Most families will choose some nursery rhymes as their family background sounds. Listen, listen, slowly the children may begin to speak. This has also been verified in our online < < Uncle Kai’s Sound Law Enlightenment > >. Uncle Kai is Optimus Prime in the cartoon < < Transformers > > and Sharks in < < Finding Nemo > >… His voice has a magic power, and both children and parents will like it if they listen to it. Poke me and listen to the background sounds used by 70,000 families. ▼ (Kai Shu’s Sound Read More …

Parents must know five things that cannot be done to their children even if it is cold in winter.

After entering December, the weather is getting colder and colder, and mothers have broken their hearts for Eva’s [warm keeping problem]. At this time, different kinds of [voices] make mothers tangled up again… Neighbors always say that my baby wears less and should wear more… The old man said there was too little cover for the children and the hands were not hot… My husband said that it is easy to catch a cold when going out in cold weather, and it is safer for her to stay at home… It is understandable that children are afraid of catching cold and getting sick, but sometimes parents are easy to do bad things with good intentions. Today, Clove’s mother helped everyone Read More …