For parents and partners, it is always difficult for us to say the word [love], but for babies, it is different, and we can’t help saying:
Daddy loves you! [Mom loves you! ]
Have you ever found that after the baby was born, you became “disgusting” and began to talk about the word “love”.
The article shared today comes from a father. After having a baby, he always likes to express his love for the baby when there are many people.
I found a very interesting thing: we often treat our relatives around us simply and directly, and when we don’t agree with each other, we will catch fire in our hearts and leave no room for quarrels. However, when we love, we are especially subtle and graceful. We always love you in our hearts, and sweet words are always too disgusting.
I have seen small couples quarrelling in the street. The boy blushed and lost his temper with thick necks. The girl squatted on the side of the road and cried, but I believe they are in love.
I have seen the girl who is about to break up with her relatives at the airport. She left in a hurry after smiling with her parents. She did not look back, but tears fell big and big after turning around, but they were in love.
I have seen parents in a bad mood, and children miserably hugged their mother’s thigh to please them in pettish manner, but they were pushed away or even reprimanded, but they were in love.
Love that cannot be said is written down in words.
In life, people are always trying to avoid those seemingly melodramatic forms of expression of love, or often use another extreme way to destroy that deep-rooted love without cherishing it.
We are always unable to express our feelings flexibly in our life, so that there will be many misunderstandings and troubles. This is indeed a distressing thing. We always try to have a good dialogue, but forget that the healer better than dialogue is actually words.
Why is it that words are a simpler and more direct way to convey love than dialogue? Because the writing of words itself has both formal and ritual feelings, and it can also release the signal of love boldly with deep feeling, leisurely and sparing no effort without any sense of embarrassment. Yes, it can also be melodramatic without scruple.
I love my son very much. Of course, I also love my wife, my parents. But when I said to my wife in a crowded place that I love you, the wife said softly awkwardly if you were sick. When I just said I love you to my parents on the phone, I could feel the bewildered expression on my parents’ faces through thousands of kilometers of telephone lines. Only when I said loudly to my son that I love you, my son immediately put down his toy and pounced on me with a smile on his face: Dad loves love.
I bet this scene is the scene where the most sincere emotion in the world can be displayed. No embellishment, no hiding, no affectation, you love me, I also love you, that’s all. I still decided to write it down here, because I am afraid that one day after many years, my son will learn the disguise of emotion in the world and will never find it again. Writing it down, this feeling seems to exist all the time.
Garrulous: Little Drops in Children’s Growth
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Song Xiaozhuang has been 1 year old and 10 months old. It is still a stage when I am young and do not know how to be happy. In addition to eating, drinking, pulling, scattering and sleeping, I slowly began to learn some principles of being a human being.
Xiao Zhuang likes to eat meat, Eat shrimp and fish. And these are all supplied in limited quantities from time to time. So when these things were placed in front of him, He had no resistance, his face brightened and his mouth watered. He changed his old informal style of eating steamed bread and rice and let it spread all over the dining table and the ground regardless. Whenever a small piece of meat fell to the ground, he could not help sighing: Alas, mother, a face of distressed and regretful expression.
Xiao Zhuang obviously still shows discomfort when meeting strangers. I can detect his psychological activities of reluctance to strike up a conversation with outsiders at a glance.
Even so, Xiao Zhuang reluctantly called his uncle, aunt, grandparents with a smile on his face in order to win the favor of the other party and exchange a few commonplaces. When the other party finally said byebye, Xiao Zhuang obviously showed a sense of relaxation that it was finally coming to an end. From the bottom of his heart, he quickly waved his hands back at byebye, feeling relieved.
Should I continue to force Xiao Zhuang to find more opportunities to communicate with others to train his communication ability, or should I allow him to develop freely? It is really a difficult problem.
Xiao Zhuang was fascinated by the video program of Beva’s children’s songs on his father’s cell phone recently. When he saw his father after work every day, he rushed over to rob his cell phone, shouting: “Naoyi, Naoyi (Little Dragon Man). Originally, he fell in love with Little Dragon Man recently. In addition, there were Bai Longma, Monkey Brother, Catch Loach, I am a little navy, and so on, all of which were homework that he must watch and listen to every day.
Grandpa especially appreciated Xiao Zhuang’s ability to find these songs flexibly and quickly. He took pains to give Xiao Zhuang the opportunity to perform every day: Grandpa wants to hear that I am a small navy, so give it to Grandpa. I don’t know which method Xiao Zhuang used to find in a few seconds, and then looked at Grandpa triumphantly. Both of them had a satisfied smile on their faces.
Until now, we are still discussing it. He thought he had memorize that prelude to the song, But he could find it before it was played, It is impossible to understand the text on the thumbnail, It is only possible to find out these many different songs by distinguishing the pictures. Later, on the music played by the drum set he bought, he was able to find the corresponding songs by playing the prelude because there was no video picture. Anyway, I have to be proud of Xiao Zhuang’s ability.
Herpetic angina is inevitable for young Zhuang. Because this guy has not learned how to speak hygiene until now. When he is in a good mood, You tell him to wash his hands, If he is told not to pick up anything on the ground, he will not pick it up. But it happened that he was often in a bad mood. When you can’t do what he wants, He immediately showed opposition to you, sitting on the ground like a legendary shrew. You said that the ground was dirty and got up quickly. He kissed the earth with his mouth even more and more. He even looked intoxicated with it. Is it really stupid or is it a skill that dares to take the risk of illness to fight against you? My silly son.
Xiao Zhuang never forgot any injury he suffered, For example, when I fell down and grinded my knees, the newly bought sandals grinded off the skin on my feet, the bag that grew up after being bitten by mosquitoes, and the hand that was squeezed by the door to the back with small bubbles, I often think of it, with painful vocal cords groaning to open my clothes or expose the wound to show you, and my mouth is still chanting: slipping, no skin, itching, taking medicine. In fact, many places have already got better.
Another bad habit of Xiao Zhuang is that he likes to hit people. Playing tricks on people. Every day when you are not careful, you will run to your front and be suddenly beaten, [beating grandpa, grandma, father and mother]. After the beating, you will still look at you with a face of fearless smile. If you say you cannot hit people with an angry face, he will immediately change his words: No beating, love father. In a twinkling of an eye, he will slap again while you are not careful. It’s really hard to change after repeated education, love and hate.
Xiao Zhuang’s happiest thing is to see others make a fool of themselves, such as splashing water on his body when taking a bath, tripping while walking, and sneezing unintentionally, all of which will make Xiao Zhuang laugh heartily.
Is it really good to build happiness on the pain of others?
I like to say I love him in places with many people.
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At the end or beginning of each month, I will spare some time and stay up all night to try to recall the unforgettable growing dribs and drabs left by Song Xiaozhuang in the past and try to record them in immature words.
Friends often say that you are really eloquent and spare no effort in praising your son. I am willing to express my love in various ways if I do not say yes or no. As long as he does not object, why suppress the nature of expressing love? Even if he has many shortcomings and shortcomings, in his own eyes, he is very good, can’t, this is nature.