There is a comparison, called [look at other people’s children].
There is a kind of heart tiredness, which is called [other people’s babies have teeth/can climb/eat/can talk… my babies can’t yet].
As a result, once it is found that the growth and development of one’s own baby are different from what is said in books/online/other people’s homes, one begins to struggle with various ways of feeding, doubting the health of the baby, and even doubting the genetic genes…
However, there is really no need to pinch the watch to raise the baby. I care too much about the 10 things of bringing the baby. I am really tired and thankless!
Is it not good for the spine to hold vertically 4 months ago?
There is no need to struggle too much with the baby. The key to holding the baby vertically in what is to hold the baby correctly.
The neck muscles of babies under 4 months old are not fully developed and cannot control their own head. If they want to hold the baby vertically, parents can support the head and neck firmly.
If you have the right posture and feel comfortable with your baby, there will be no problem.
Think about how happy it is to see the bigger world on my father/mother’s shoulders. Who would like to look at the ceiling every day?
Is it normal to have teeth for about 6 months?
Under normal circumstances, the first deciduous tooth will begin to erupt when the baby is about 6 months old, and the deciduous tooth will be ready when the baby is about 2.5 years old.
However, tooth development is a complicated process and is affected by many factors. As long as the baby’s teeth germinate in a reasonable range, there is no big difference between early and late growth. Have you ever seen which is born without teeth? Isn’t that right ~
The core part of deciduous teeth has already been built in the mother’s belly, and will naturally come out when it is time to come out, which has nothing to do with calcium deficiency.
If the baby is over one and a half years old and there is no sign of tusks, it is recommended to take the child to the hospital for examination.
If you look up, sit, climb and stand, you must follow the time?
[Three Lifts, Four Turns, Six Sits, Seven Rolls, Eight Climbs and Twelve Walks], which basically conforms to the law of baby development, but each baby is a unique individual, and the time for looking up, turning over, climbing and walking will definitely not be the same.
It is too arbitrary to judge whether the baby’s development is slow or not by absolute time points. Moreover, baby development is also related to many environmental factors:
In winter, children from families with heating in the north may learn to turn over and crawl better than those from families without heating in the south (because they wear less); However, the small exercise ability of the overweight baby may be slightly worse than that of the relatively lean baby (because of its heavy weight).
What mothers have to do is actually to accompany the baby, help him, guide him and believe him.
If the baby is delayed for more than 2-3 months in a certain development index or suffers from developmental backwardness in more than two fields at the same time, it is recommended to go to the hospital for medical investigation.
It takes 6 months to add supplementary food?
In fact, there is no standard time point for babies to add supplementary foods.
WHO Suggests: Healthy full-term babies: 6 months is the best time to introduce supplementary food; Some fast-growing babies: supplementary foods can be introduced slightly in advance, but not earlier than 4 months or not later than 8 months.
If the baby is 4 months old and can accept spoon feeding without sticking his tongue to refuse, he can try to add some supplementary food after feeding.
However, I would like to remind everyone that it cannot be earlier, otherwise it will affect the intake of breast milk/formula milk and the development of the baby.
Eat eggs after one year old?
In the past, due to concerns about food allergies, experts advised babies to wait until they were 1 year old before eating eggs. However, in 2008, the American Academy of Pediatrics withdrew such recommendations, believing that there was no scientific basis for delaying the exposure of babies to foods that might cause allergies.
Generally speaking, when babies start to add supplementary foods about 4 ~ 6 months old, they should first add foods rich in iron (such as high-iron rice flour and meat paste), and then they can eat eggs.
It is recommended that you try to eat egg yolk for your baby first. If you get used to egg yolk, then try protein.
However, it should be noted that if the baby has had allergic reactions, such as rash and wheezing, it is better to consult a pediatrician before eating eggs for the first time.
Is it slow to speak at the age of 1?
There is a saying called, noble language late, this sentence is only half right.
There are three reasons why the baby speaks late or lags behind the language of the baby of the same age:
1. Individual differences, but the baby’s opening morning and evening and language learning ability are different, the delay time is only within 6 months, the problem is not big;
2. Congenital diseases (such as autism and short frenulum of tongue). There is really a slow development of language. First of all, the problem of baby development needs to be eliminated.
3. Learning and communication are too little, parents do not spend enough time interacting with the baby’s language, or give the baby less chance to express himself.
Generally speaking, as long as the cause of the disease is ruled out, there is no need to worry too much about speaking late, and parents need more guidance and patience.
Slow growth curve = malnutrition?
Before, I introduced a very good baby health management tool: growth and development curve, please point me for details.
Many parents pay too much attention to the [growth curve table] when using this gadget. They will be very anxious when they feel that their children have not grown meat or height and have not reached the standard.
In fact, the development speed of the baby is different at each stage. The development curve cannot only look at one point in time or a short period of time, but also depends on the overall situation. It is normal to have a slight deviation.
As long as the baby is healthy, the overall curve is no problem and there is no need to struggle too much.
If the growth curve deviates from the original position, there will be big ups and downs. If the growth curve is lower than 3% or higher than 97%, it is necessary to consider whether the baby has hidden health problems or improper feeding.
Can you train to use the toilet after you are 2 years old?
We don’t recommend giving children excrement and urine in advance. Generally speaking, it is recommended that 2-year-old children go to the toilet.
However, whether it can be advanced or delayed depends on the difference of each child. If the child has the following performance: interested in the toilet, can take the initiative to go to the toilet (or can clearly see the signal of going to the toilet), the child can be trained to go to the toilet.
However, it should be noted that toilet training is a long-term and possibly repeated process, which does not mean saying goodbye to diapers when going to the toilet.
The baby will completely control his defecation and urination, which is almost 4 to 4.5 years old. If the baby urinates his pants and bedwetts the bed in the middle, don’t put pressure on the baby. It is best to let nature take its course.
Is it insecure to split up before the age of 3?
The age of 3 years old to divide the bed is the age when it is suggested to divide the bed. It is beneficial to both babies and adults to divide the bed in advance before the age of 3.
For small babies, sharing the bed with their parents may seem convenient, but it will increase the risk of sudden infant death syndrome. It is suggested that newborns should share the same room and have different beds. Only when nursing or comforting can the children be carried to the adult’s bed and put back to his small bed when sleeping.
When the baby gradually grows up and begins to notice the difference between men and women, if he continues to sleep with his parents, it may affect the development of sexual cognition.
After the bed is divided, the baby sleeps well, so do you, and you can regain the relationship between husband and wife.
If you are afraid that your baby will kick the quilt at night, when will a sleeping bag be enough?
Can’t go to kindergarten before the age of 3?
At this time of year, it is mothers who struggle with the problem of their babies’ age in the kindergarten. Will they get sick and be bullied too early? Too late, baby habits are not good?
In fact, whether the baby is suitable for admission is not the only criterion. Early admission and late admission have their own advantages and disadvantages.
If the baby has good expression ability and self-care ability, and also has strong social needs, there is nothing wrong with entering the park early.
The main attention is that no matter when you enter the park, it is the most important thing to let the mother and the baby pass the separation anxiety smoothly together, and let the baby know that although you cannot accompany your mother, you still love you.
What’s growth curve, supplementary food addition standards and various development indicators are actually only indicators within a range, in order to give us reference and suggestions. We should raise babies purely according to books and various standards. Everything must meet the standards. Both babies and mothers are too tired!
Relax, as long as the baby is mentally good, physically good and happy, isn’t it?