What happened to the sexually abused children?

Recently, with the exposure of a big V paedophilia incident, a series of child sexual abuse incidents have also surfaced to sleep. After a child is sexually assaulted, he may not say or cry. He is just not good at expressing and suppressing it in his heart. These psychological effects will not disappear with it, but will pervade every part of his life with the precipitation of time and will probably accompany them all his life. Wang Yirui, a famous doctor of psychology, will give you a concrete analysis of this issue. Will there be concrete manifestations of how? When things happen, how do you deal with them to minimize the damage? Sexual assault is not necessarily violent in nature. Read More …

A doctor’s headache

Headache, this is a difficult topic, extensive and profound; It is also a headache symptom, seemingly simple, but the mechanism behind it is very complicated. No way, because it is so common that it is encountered almost every day in emergency department. Without understanding, sometimes the headache that had nothing to do was very nervous, but the patients and their families were very nervous. They were rushed to the emergency department by 120 and were scared. Or sometimes it is originally a life-threatening disease, but patients and their families think it is a common symptom. It’s not a big deal. They miss the best time to see a doctor and cause irreparable consequences. Therefore, the introduction of headache here will Read More …

Relatives have blacked me out. I don’t regret it for the sake of my children.

Every mother may have encountered such an embarrassing situation: If other people’s children want to take away their baby toys, do they give them or not? If you don’t give it, you won’t be able to lose face. Give, and wronged their children. This kind of scene can also give rise to countless daily versions, each time you are in a [dilemma]. Today’s article may give you some help. This is how the mother handled such a thing. [Defending] Baby’s Little Hippocampus, I Was Blacked out by Relatives A relative blacked me out because Xiong Haizi robbed toys. One weekend, relatives brought their 4-year-old son to play. The 2-year-old and 8-month-old son Zhe liked this big brother very much and Read More …

The baby’s navel is dirty, do you want to clean it up?

There is a saying that the baby’s belly button cannot be touched even if it is dirty. Is this saying reasonable? In fact, the child’s navel can be cleaned. The umbilical cord of a small baby usually falls off in about 2-3 weeks. After falling off, the wound of the navel is as complete as the skin of other parts after healing, and no additional treatment is required after the newborn period. Generally speaking, when the baby takes a bath, he can wash his navel incidentally. If this part of the child does not clean sebum and dust all the time, it will form dirt and adhere to the skin. If it is too large, it will irritate the skin Read More …

Boys play with dolls, will they become [Niang]?

Not long ago, Zuo Fei, a special author of Clove’s mother and an excellent family education consultant, received help from an anxious father: My son is 2 years old, and I don’t know why he likes to play with dolls. He holds dolls every day, feeds them with water, injections and coaxes them to sleep… Other boys are playing with pistol cars. My family has no interest in such toys at all. Instead, they play house with girls… I really can’t bear it. Boys should have masculinity. How can they be so [sissy]? Is there any problem with sexual orientation? Boys like toy cars while girls like to play house. Boys are suitable for blue and girls are suitable for Read More …

It is more important to say [sorry] to the child than to say [I love you].

I’m afraid the hardest thing to do in raising children is to be a good-natured father/mother. No yelling, no yelling, no yelling, no yelling, no yelling, no yelling. Parents all hope to do it very much. But most of the time, we can’t [give up] our explosive temper. Today’s article is contributed by a reader of Dr. Clove. I’d like to share with you the sentiment of a angry mother. I cried when I saw Chen Xiaochun and his son say [sorry] I believe many of my friends who have seen < < Where’s Dad Going > > have been attracted by Chen Xiaochun’s father and son. A cute and soft baby with extremely high emotional intelligence and a father Read More …

The child is not fond of greeting [polite]? It is useless to do so, but it will hurt Eva.

Parents all want their children to be sensible and polite. Visiting relatives at festivals, If our baby has a sweet mouth, we can’t stop shouting [uncle is good] [grandfather is good] when we see relatives and friends. As parents, we always feel very [long face], but not all babies are cheerful and extroverted. Facing such occasions, they will be at a loss. Even if their parents ask them to say hello, the baby will still close his mouth and refuse to speak. Many parents wonder, [Why does my baby just refuse to say hello? It’s really rude not to say hello! ] We invited teacher Chang Run, director of the kindergarten, to tell everyone that children do not like to Read More …