Making friends with children is not as simple as you think.

In the eyes of many parents, [making friends with children] is the best answer to parent-child relationship. It’s true that parents and their children become friends, lower their profile, listen to their children’s opinions and respect their choices, but don’t misunderstand the meaning of establishing a relationship with children. Parent-child relationship is much more complicated than friendship. [hello, I’m good, everyone] Friends are by no means the end-result of parent-child relationship. In fact, parents need to do much more than friends. I think to be friends with children is to be undisciplined. If parents treat their children as friends, they will easily fall into the erroneous zone of “not being disciplined”. I have a brother who is ten years older Read More …

The more reasonable you are, the more disobedient the child is.

01 [Eat obediently so that you can grow as tall as your father] [Brush your teeth obediently, otherwise you will suffer from tooth decay and pain.] [Don’t eat ice cream any more, you will catch a cold] ……. When I first started to be a mother, like every textbook mother, I treated my children gently and talked loudly for fear of scaring them. However, the facts tell me that these are useless at all! In the face of all kinds of behaviors that Eva did not cooperate with me, such as not eating well and not sleeping well, I reminded myself to be patient 10,000 times in my heart, but I still couldn’t help yelling at Eva……. It was not Read More …