There is a lot of news about Lu Guan on the Internet: a cartoon website once shouted the slogan “Today is Lu sir, tomorrow is loser”, calling on the otaku to put down their [evil] hands.
Today we will tear open the veil of the tube.
The professional name of the tube is masturbation or masturbation. It usually refers to obtaining sexual pleasure by stimulating sexual organs with hands or other objects.
In China, masturbation used to be called getting dust, getting handles, thugs, and hand work. Now it is called Lu Guan, Wu Girl, and flying on the Internet.
When adolescents reach puberty, With the development of sexual organs and the increase of hormone secretion in blood, Sexual desire began to be aroused. One of the major differences between human beings and other animals in sexual desire is that That is, human beings do not have estrus. That is to say, as long as human beings receive certain sexual stimulation, they may have sexual desire. Over time, human beings have found a way to achieve the same pleasure as mating through masturbation, and at the same time, the long-suppressed hormones in the body are released.
Many people think masturbation is a crime, shameful thing, difficult to say, thus causing great psychological burden and guilt. In fact, sexual desire, like appetite, is a sign of human health and a normal physiological need.
One drop of essence, ten drops of blood?
For a long time, due to social and historical and cultural reasons, there are still many misunderstandings about masturbation. For example, the statement of “one drop of sperm, ten drops of blood” is one-sided. The human body excretes only a few milliliters of semen at a time, which contains very little protein and minerals and has little influence on the human body.
Male semen, like other body fluids or secretions, needs to be excreted normally, which is spermatorrhea.
In 1948, the U.S. Sexual Research Group led by Dr. Kinsey proposed that masturbation is a normal sexual behavior. Data from several U.S. Questionnaires show that about 70%-97% of men and 47%-78% of women have masturbated.
A questionnaire survey of 564 male students in Ningxia University showed that nearly 50% of college students had masturbated. Another study also carried out in China also mentioned that up to 85% of male college students had masturbated. About 50% of the 2,200 girls surveyed masturbated.
These data show that masturbation is common.
There is some truth in the statement that masturbation can reduce the incidence of prostatitis and prostate cancer. However, it cannot be generalized. Some studies have pointed out that Compared with normal people, Ejaculation frequency is low in patients with prostate cancer. This phenomenon may be related to long-term non-excretion of prostatic fluid. And if complicated with chronic prostatitis, It is more likely to cause stagnation of prostatic fluid. However, other studies have shown that people who have sex too frequently are more likely to develop prostate cancer. The number of cases and follow-up in these studies are limited, so there is no definite conclusion on these claims.
Is masturbation really harmful?
Masturbation itself is harmless.
There is no need to make a fuss about masturbation. Occasionally, it is beneficial to physical and mental health, but it must be enough.
Moderate masturbation can release long-term stress and is conducive to greater enthusiasm for work. Orgasm caused by masturbation is a natural hypnotic. Although there is no exact mechanism yet, a survey showed that masturbation can help about 1/3 of women fall asleep. Clinically, men collect semen samples and donate sperm through masturbation.
However, uncontrolled masturbation, like alcoholism, will bring many negative effects. For example, physical weakness, soreness of waist and knees, inattention, memory loss, etc. Frequent sexual impulses cause repeated congestion of prostate gland, which can also lead to spermatorrhea, spermatorrhea, etc. Some people even use some foreign bodies to cause genital organ damage in order to pursue sensory stimulation.
Therefore, we should treat masturbation correctly and maintain a good state of mind. We must let nature take its course. Don’t cause psychological pressure and psychological diseases due to misunderstanding due to guilt and fear before and after masturbation.
Can masturbation cause premature ejaculation?
At present, there is no evidence that masturbation is directly related to premature ejaculation.
However, masturbation often has fear, fear that others will suddenly break in and speed up ejaculation. Over time, it is easy to form the habit of ejaculation too fast. Therefore, masturbation should be carried out in a quiet and undisturbed environment.
Proper masturbation can also increase tolerance to sexual stimulation, not so sensitive to sexual stimulation, and can prolong ejaculation latency to a certain extent.
No matter what masturbation methods and techniques you adopt, the key is to pay attention to hygiene, such as washing hands and genitals first, and not violence.
How to indulge in masturbation?
Masturbation can cause sexual stimulation and pleasure, which is a normal physiological reaction. However, if you indulge in masturbation, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.
In order to avoid indulging in masturbation, good habits should be formed.
Before going to bed, don’t watch obscene pictures and movies. When you sleep, you should control yourself and don’t want to have sex-related problems. When the idea of masturbation flashes in your mind, you can overcome it consciously through yourself. At ordinary times, you can take part in sports and group activities, reduce the time for individual activities, often spend time with others, and also change your masturbation habits.
Therefore, it is not necessary to accuse the sir of masturbation too much, otherwise it will increase their ideological burden. We should treat them with a scientific attitude, especially for teenagers who are still in puberty, whose psychological state is not yet mature, and we should cultivate a wide range of hobbies and interests through active communication and guidance to avoid their obsession with sex too much.
In addition, it is necessary to remind sir to find a quiet and undisturbed environment before carrying out your activities.
In a word, masturbation is a normal physiological phenomenon, so there is no need to make a fuss and panic, but it should be remembered that small moves delight one’s feelings, large moves hurt one’s body, and strong moves disappear.
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