There is such a couple who have a good relationship at ordinary times, but recently they have become uncomfortable because of things in bed.
It turns out that girls are always inattentive when they love, even singing and telling jokes!
This attitude is extremely improper and its influence is extremely bad. What is going on? It turns out that the girl is also very depressed, every time there is no orgasm, can’t get involved, just want to end quickly…
Ah, you can’t buy the climax, nor can you give it to men. You have to strive for it yourself! This time, let’s talk about this inspirational topic.
Is female orgasm an experience in how?
Women are accustomed to men’s orgasms, but they seldom or never have the chance to see other women’s orgasms. Well, I mean without more opportunities to learn and accumulate, your understanding and experience may not be accurate.
Orgasm is essentially the accumulation of pleasure to a certain extent of release, here is a < < Obstetrics and Gynecology > > on the description of female orgasm, welcome self-test:
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With the arrival of orgasm, vagina and anal sphincter undergo involuntary rhythmic contraction, about 3-12 times, gradually disappearing from strong to weak, uterus also contracting and ascending, accompanied by facial distortion, systemic spasm, moaning, sweating and temporary mental confusion.
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Sexual flush can occur in many parts of the body. Heart rate increases to 100 ~ 180 beats/minute, respiration reaches 40 beats/minute, systolic blood pressure increases by 30 ~ 80 mmHg, diastolic blood pressure increases by 20 ~ 40 mmHg.
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The orgasm lasts only a few seconds, and in a short period of time, the accumulated sexual tension is quickly released through strong muscle spasms. Psychologically, I feel great pleasure and pleasure.
Do you always experience orgasms? No matter what the result is, there is no highest but higher in the pursuit of climax! So the question arises, is what blocking our climax?
Women also have sexual dysfunction?
Wake up and draw the key point: what may hinder you from getting pleasure is the female orgasm disorder.
You have sexual interests and requirements, the other person is good and hard-working, and your body is excited (genitals are swollen, vagina is fully lubricated), but you either never have an orgasm or you don’t have an orgasm at all. Therefore, you can only watch the other person orgasm, but you can’t share his feelings. Your pleasure is very low, and your sexual satisfaction is rarely or hardly achieved.
Seeing this description, I instantly felt that dark clouds covered the sky. Moreover, failure to orgasm can also affect women’s self-esteem and the relationship between partners. Sexual dysfunction can be roughly divided into two categories:
Situational disorder: This kind of orgasm is conditional, for example, orgasm can be reached during [self-entertainment], but not during sexual life (helplessness)
Complete sexual disorder: refers to a woman who can never reach orgasm with any sexual partner under any circumstances (more indignant and helpless)
What Causes Women to Can’t Orgasm?
Sexual dysfunction is caused by both physical and mental factors or by both. At present, it seems that it is mainly caused by psychological factors.
Physical factors:Neurological factors, gynecological diseases and urinary system diseases may affect sexual function. Some endocrine system diseases, such as diabetes, can also cause female sexual dysfunction.
Psychological factors: such as interpersonal influences from growing families and previous relationships, the degree of harmony in the current partnership, negative attitudes and prejudices towards sex, etc. Modern life is stressful, and people are prone to anxiety and are not immune to love. Both parties’ inability to understand each other, worry about their poor performance, and inability to focus will all affect orgasm.
On Self-cultivation of High Tide
If you have physical and mental problems, remember to find a doctor. No problem, we must constantly improve our self-cultivation.
You may have thought about reading a book and going to the gym three times a week, but you have never put the promotion of sexual experience on your schedule. So, please think about it face to face.
Here are some general suggestions, such as:
- Learn the basic knowledge and skills about sex. Use your imagination, put your various senses into wonderful sexual fantasies, and you can also use music or love action movies to chat with your partner about this matter to gain the support and understanding of the other party. After all, if you can’t enjoy it well, the other party can feel your disappointment over time.
Don’t pin your orgasm on men.
Now you might as well imagine that you can take the initiative to attack and control the situation like a man. Is it still a little exciting?
You will pursue more initiative and experience and release it more incisively and vividly! This power does not come from men, but from yourself! You can’t pin your orgasm on men!
If you don’t work hard on your own
Don’t feel your feelings with your heart.
Don’t guide your partner how to caress and stimulate correctly.
Is that different from salted fish in what? !