If you have seen the movie “God of Food” starring Xing Ye, you must be very impressed by the “Master of Dreams” in the movie. (How can anyone have such a Dharma name? ) The real name of the dreamdream is “spermatorrhea”. You can also call it “big uncle”.
There is a description in a Dream of Red Mansions [Jia Baoyu’s First Trial of Clouds and Rain], It is said that Jia Baoyu slept in the bed of his nephew’s daughter-in-law Qin Keqing and dreamed of spring dreams. In a daze, he actually did things about men and women in the dream. After waking up, when Xiren came to tie his trousers belt, he just reached into Baoyu’s thigh and felt cold, sticky and wet. He was scared and hurriedly returned his hand and asked, “Where did that come from?” Baoyu blushed and said nothing. This described Jia Baoyu’s first spermatorrhea.
What is spermatorrhea?
Spermatorrhea refers to spontaneous ejaculation without sexual intercourse and masturbation.
Spermatorrhea is a normal physiological phenomenon and a sign that male gonads begin to mature. Boys enter puberty around the age of 10, and spermatorrhea may occur for the first time at the age of 13-15:
One morning you woke up and found a little sticky white or transparent liquid on your underpants, with a fishy smell…
Young boys are prone to some indescribable images in their dreams, which may lead to embarrassment when they wake up. If parents do not guide them correctly, adolescent children may feel guilty and ashamed, which is not conducive to their physical and mental development.
The traditional concept is [one drop of sperm, ten drops of blood], but in fact semen is not precious. Semen will be produced every day during development or adult males. When it cannot be stored, sperm will be released.
How many times is spermatorrhea normal?
Men who have not had sex for a long time after puberty may have spermatorrhea every 1-2 weeks. Although it is called “big uncle”, spermatorrhea is not as regular as that of big aunt. When we calculate the number of spermatorrhea, we usually calculate it in monthly units.
The number and frequency of spermatorrhea vary from person to person, and the following situations can be considered normal:
- The interval between the number of spermatorrhea per month in 1 ~ 8 times may be uneven, generally once every 1 ~ 2 weeks, but it may also be once every day for several consecutive days in a short period of time.
If spermatorrhea occurs several times a week, even every day, or semen will slip out by itself when awake during the day, it may be pathological spermatorrhea, so you should go to the hospital as soon as possible.
Note: When calculating the number of spermatorrhea, do not regard a small amount of transparent secretions flowing out of the urethra during sexual stimulation as spermatorrhea, which is secreted by urethral bulb gland, paraurethral gland and prostate gland.
Why is spermatorrhea frequent?
There may be two main causes of frequent spermatorrhea:
Psychological factors: mental pressure is too high, or often stimulated by pornographic books or videos, the brain is in a state of sexual excitement, and sexual fantasies occur unconsciously when sleeping.
Disease factors: Inflammation of the reproductive system may stimulate penis erection, and it is also easy to cause spermatorrhea, such as prostatitis and dermatitis.
In addition, some living habits may also cause spermatorrhea, such as wearing too tight underpants before going to bed, covering too warm quilts, drinking too much water or holding urine, stimulating organs, drinking too much, exercising, etc.
Correctly Dealing with Spermatorrhea
Most boys will feel uneasy and shy when they discover their first spermatorrhea. They will usually clean up [criminal evidence] themselves for fear of embarrassing their parents. Parents should let their children know that spermatorrhea is a normal physical phenomenon, not a physical or psychological what problem, so as to keep their children physically and mentally healthy.
After spermatorrhea, you should change a new pair of underpants the next morning, clean your genitals and keep them clean and sanitary.
Proper arrangement of study and life, pay attention to the combination of work and rest. Don’t drink a lot of water before going to bed, wear loose underpants. Also pay attention to personal hygiene, pay attention to keep the external genitals clean, prevent inflammation.
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