How painful is it to have children?

A few days ago, Clove Mother launched a vote [When it comes to having children, your first reaction is what? ], 5224 candidates [pain, the whole person seems to be about to burst].

Combined with a survey data made by Dr. Clove some time ago about wanting to have a second child: 40% want to have a second child and 40% refuse to have a second child; 20% of the families already have two babies.

The pain of the body can’t resist everyone’s heart of wanting to have a baby. The reason is that thousands of families have thousands of reasons.

@ Shark

When I gave birth to a baby, I was so painful that I was determined not to have a second child. After giving birth, I saw that the girl from other people’s family was so cute that I was thinking about when I would have a second child for only two months.

Mothers who want to have a second child, put away the knowledge of having a second child. At the end of this article, we have also prepared a [Bible of Natural Birth] for you, hoping to help you give birth as easily and smoothly as possible when having a second child!

How often is it better to have a second child and a first child?

From a scientific point of view, it is best for the health of the mother and the baby to be pregnant one and a half to two years after the first child (the children are 2.5 to 3 years apart).

According to a research report on more than 170,000 newborns delivered in Utah in the past eight years, the risk of getting pregnant again one and a half years to two years after giving birth to the previous child is about 1.4 times, and the risk of getting pregnant more than 10 years is about 1.5-2 times.

In addition, regarding the interval between caesarean section mothers and pregnancy again, the conclusion is relatively consistent, that is, it is recommended to conceive again after more than one and a half years, and the incidence of complications during pregnancy and childbirth is relatively low.

Judging from the baby’s education, this is also the conclusion.

Generally speaking, children will meet a leap period of growth every 2-3 years, and starting from the first big rebellion period of 2 years old, each leap period may face the rebellion and noise of the baby.

However, if the age gap between the big baby and the second baby is within 3 years, it is very likely that the big baby and the second baby will enter their own leap and rebellion period at the same time. This may be disastrous for ordinary families.

Therefore, we suggest that it is a better time choice to conceive again one and a half years to two years after the first child.

Can one child be delivered by caesarean section and the second child be smooth?

If the following 6 situations are met, the second child can safely choose to give birth smoothly:

1. The reason for the last caesarean section does not exist this time: such factors as fetal giant, fetal distress in utero, oligohydramnios, amniotic fluid pollution, social factors (required by oneself) and so on do not exist when having a second child;

2. The type of incision for the last caesarean section: the transverse incision for the lower segment of the uterus (the most common incision at present). If you are not sure about the type of incision for your caesarean section, you can check the previous caesarean section records.

3. Time of last caesarean section: more than 18 months;

4. Number of caesarean sections: 1 at most;

5. Number of fetuses in this pregnancy: single or twin (and the first is head position);

6. The delivery hospital provides spontaneous delivery after caesarean section: The risk of spontaneous delivery after caesarean section is still greater than that of pregnant women without caesarean section history. Therefore, the delivery hospital must have emergency rescue measures.

How to solve these problems?

@ Maya

Less than 8 months after giving birth to Dabao, I had two treasures in an unexpected pregnancy. Can I only abort them at this time?

@ Drive to Tea Fan

What is the success rate of natural delivery after caesarean section? What is the risk of uterine rupture?

@ miki

Mother Clove, I would like to know if having a second child can help me solve the [pain] problem.

There are some ways to give birth easily and smoothly, but any systematic method requires a period of practice, and it is really too late to prepare until the moment of giving birth.

Clove’s mother and Tian Taiyi, who has more than 10 years of work experience in obstetrics and gynecology of the provincial 3A hospital, have carefully prepared a set of courses for “natural labor treasure book”. From the moment my mother learned that she was pregnant, she operated in accordance with the systematic way provided by Tian Taiyi in the course, and it was not so difficult to give birth easily.

In the course you will gain

1. Specific and operable methods for giving birth to children that are less painful;

2. How to eat correctly during pregnancy to ensure the best weight;

3. Learn to choose the right way to give birth: natural delivery/caesarean section

4. Choose Scientific and Effective Pain Techniques

Every mother may have some special questions during pregnancy, so we have also prepared a free live answer for you, with targeted questions and targeted answers from Dr. Tian Tai.

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