I have recorded the key experiences of the whole pregnancy, not only to leave a memory for the family, but also to provide some reference for expectant mothers who are pregnant for the first time, hoping to gain confidence and security from it.
I want to tell you that you can smoothly and safely produce a healthy baby without trembling about your eating habits and living habits, without being carefully taken care of, without running around to support relationships, without spending too much money.
Little waxberry is my nickname for my baby.
On that afternoon in summer, when I was sitting on the toilet and looking at the two red lines, I was awakened by the doorbell of Shunfeng Express. It was Dongkui Myrica Rubra ordered by my lover Zhang, who was away on business, who arrived.
Well, this is the origin of the name.
A temporary pre-pregnancy physical examination
There are two examinations that must be done before pregnancy and at the beginning of early pregnancy: pre-pregnancy physical examination and early pregnancy diagnosis.
In fact, pregnancy is not in the plan, just because I have to check my breast problems, I have always wanted to experience the clove clinic. I happened to meet Tian Jishun, a famous obstetrician and gynecologist, so I was excited and thought that it would be very difficult to come here. By the way, I would have a pre-pregnancy physical examination, and I would like to check my physical condition.
The whole experience process was really human and comfortable. Dr. Tian patiently answered my endless questions, such as diet, living habits, pet foster care and other suggestions.
The report came out soon, and Dr. Tian said that my current condition was no problem in preparing for pregnancy. We had no plan to have a baby at that time, so we did not have folic acid.
Unexpectedly, the second week after the examination…
However, we did not know it at all. Until two months later, my menstrual period did not come. I didn’t care at the beginning when my menstruation was not very regular. I just found some abnormalities in my body, such as the thought of greasy and spicy food. I prefer to eat fruits with high water content, such as Fengshui pear. I have the habit of going to the toilet in the middle of the night. I attribute all the problems to the hot weather.
This is the greatest bravery in my life.
To be honest, I felt very complicated when I learned of my pregnancy.
After all, it was out of our plan, and we just got 452 working vacation tickets from Australia, ready to stay in Australia for one year.
I once laughed at Mr. Zhang for being afraid of watching horror movies and pointed to his stomach and said, “Look, you are not a brave man.”
He said seriously to my stomach: “Baba has decided to give birth to you now, which is the greatest courage in my life.”
Due to my physical and humanitarian considerations, this little life, we decided to give birth to TA and raise it well.
As a result of this decision, our partners also become more dependent and intimate with each other.
Go to the community hospital as soon as possible to build a small card!
The second diagnosis of early pregnancy was also made at Clove Clinic, mainly for B-ultrasound examination. The doctor told the embryo length that there was about 7 weeks of pregnancy.
Our silly parents didn’t know there was a 6 cm baby until 7 weeks later!
It is really important to emphasize here that women should form a good habit-record their menstrual starting and ending time, status and cycle. I am a very careless person, and I have not remembered these. Even the time of the last menstruation is finally calculated by B-ultrasound examination during NT.
Then I started to supplement folic acid, so expectant mothers who haven’t eaten folic acid but are pregnant don’t have to worry too much. It is good to eat vegetables and fruits at ordinary times. If you are really scared, you can have a folic acid content test in your body.
Folic acid is a water-soluble B vitamin, which can prevent fetal neural tube malformation. Folic acid can be eaten as long as possible before pregnancy, usually in the first three months of pregnancy, until the end of the first three months of pregnancy, and can last for the whole pregnancy if conditions permit.
I went to the clove clinic for examination. In fact, it is more common for expectant mothers (with their account books or temporary residence permits) to build [small cards] in the corresponding community hospitals.
Community doctors will arrange examinations according to the week of pregnancy. The sooner they go to build small cards, the better. Some community hospitals can also receive folic acid free of charge.
Pregnancy Makes Life More Regular
Diet, work and rest, exercise, work, these items although I did not deliberately do time allocation, but due to the energy drive of the body and subconscious distribution, I began to live a more regular life. Some people say that [three years of pregnancy] does not seem obvious to me, perhaps because I am naturally organized?
The only thing that still rankles me is that I sent away my two cats.
In fact, the risk of infection with Toxoplasma gondii is very low if you do a good job of examination in advance, get a good vaccination, do not directly contact cat feces, live with cats during pregnancy. However, the pressure on the elders is too great, and there must always be some compromise in the negotiations.
At the beginning of early pregnancy, it is important for the hospital to check and adjust all relationships. In this matter of pregnancy, expectant mothers should have the leading power, which is really a great challenge.
Finally, I would like to say that everyone’s physical reactions are different. If there are other problems, you can go to the public number [Good Pregnancy Academy] (ID: Dxyunshi) for keyword search.
Believe in the doctor’s specialty and experience, learn to find answers and learn to overcome anxiety.