It is difficult to be a human being and even more difficult to be a woman.
Since ancient times, the public has always set women as “weak, afraid of pain and crying”. Whether in this novel or drama, women are always described as fragile, sensitive and crying images.
However, in real life, you will find that women will suffer more pain than men, and when they become mothers, the superman mode of women will be opened more.
Today we are going to talk about the three kinds of pain that only those who are mothers can understand.
Every month, I come all the way with physical pain.
@ Lo
For people with dysmenorrhea for nearly 20 years, Western medicine painkillers have not only failed to take them, but also suffered intermittent pain in the next few days. Originally, the pain lasted for two days, but the result was three days. After taking traditional Chinese medicine for half a year and five days in advance a month, it has no effect at all. After eating it, I would rather suffer than eat it…
@ Coke Niang
I have been taking pain-relieving drugs all the time, and I have taken gastric ulcer. Although it shows that the written gastric ulcer cannot take pain-relieving drugs, there are still what methods. I have to take gastric ulcer, or I will die of pain.
On those days of each month, [bloody] will (basically) visit on time, followed by pale face, weak whole body, severe pain, unable to go to the fields.
In fact, 90% of physiological pain belongs to primary, that is, [no problem! Anyway, it is pain! ] So, a word-endure, drink some hot water, hold a hot water bag, stooped body nest a nest, generally also passed.
However, there are still some physiological pains caused by endometriosis, hysteromyoma, adenomyosis and other primary diseases, and the pain is even more unbearable. The goal of this treatment is obvious-the treatment of primary diseases.
In the face of physical pain, we can do this:
- If the pain is extremely unbearable, eliminate secondary dysmenorrhea and find the root cause for treatment. Take painkillers, such as ibuprofen, aspirin and salicol. If there is no fertility requirement, oral contraceptives can also be taken to relieve it. Brown sugar water, ginger sugar water are all ineffective and feel effective, just because the water is very hot.
Before giving birth to a baby, the pain of childbirth occurred once before the death of the baby.
@ small steamed stuffed bun
I am one of those who are particularly afraid of pain, I will never forget the pain of giving birth to a baby. I didn’t sleep a wink on the evening of the 12th and was born in the early morning of the 14th. I am the kind of lumbago. I can’t lie down or sit down. I can only relieve it if I keep walking. I was 130 before my death and 106 after giving birth for 3 days. Moreover, we can only use the Doula instrument when we open 3 fingers, and we can only use it at 11 o’clock on the 13th. The pain of opening the uterus can’t be described in words…
@ luck english
After dinner the day before, I began to feel pain at 6 o’clock. I started to feel pain every ten minutes at 12 o’clock in the morning. I did not dare to sleep all the time. I felt pain every five minutes at 3 o’clock in the morning. I went to the hospital immediately. After completing the formalities at 4 o’clock, I had not yet opened the uterine opening. Call and wait! The pain lasted until more than three o’clock in the afternoon when the uterus opened its two fingers. The doctor suggested oxytocin. I didn’t sleep all night. Otherwise, the pain reached ten fingers and I didn’t have the strength to give birth. More than five o’clock in the afternoon oxytocin was given, and five minutes began to tear my heart with labor pains. At seven o’clock on the birth bed, 7.2 kg of female treasure came out. Sew five stitches and shake for an hour after giving birth! I think it is really a narrow escape!
In the British pain classification method, childbirth pain is a frightening grade 12. In our country, childbirth pain is ranked second only to [extensive severe burns].
There are also many mothers who feel that [giving birth to babies is not painful/not too painful], but most women belong to [the unlucky majority] and have to go through a baptism of pain.
If the fetal position is not correct, or the weight control is not good, causing the fetus to be too large, it will cause difficulty in delivery and more severe pain. However, excessive nervousness and anxiety, fear of delivery, to a certain extent, will also cause amplification of pain.
However, for mothers who have not experienced natural labor but have undergone caesarean section, the wound pain after delivery is also very difficult and requires a longer recovery time.
Facing the pain of childbirth, we can do what:
- Regular and reasonable exercise before pregnancy, if physical strength and endurance are good, will make the delivery process less painful; Controlling the weight during pregnancy also requires reasonable nutrition during pregnancy. Don’t eat too much and eat too much to avoid the fetus being too large, which can reduce the difficulty of delivery to a certain extent. Learning Lamaze breathing method can effectively reduce fear and tension. The choice of painless labor (also called [labor analgesia]) refers to the use of some analgesic method to eliminate severe pain during labor, or to reduce the pain during labor to a minimum. It is a simple, easy, safe and reliable technology.
More painful and lasting than giving birth to babies-breast-feeding pain
@ Zhao Xiaosi
When giving birth to the baby, the cervix softened and failed, and all kinds of crimes were suffered. This can be tolerated. After feeding, the pain of rising milk, mastitis and fever reached 40 degrees. It was really unbearable. I wanted to give up breast milk more than once, but I still insisted on it for the sake of the baby.
@ Poof
Bite, break again in the process of healing, Infinite circulation, every time I drink, I pinch my fist tightly, for fear that I can’t help beating him. After drinking, there is obviously a blood hole in the hole, and then pus rises in the broken place. The next time I squeeze the pus, I continue to feed it. Until now, I still have shadows. I am afraid that when he inhales, he will catch me another bite. Every time I inhale, I subconsciously shrink back…
@ 13
Sheep fat is of no use at all, Feed a cry once, because the milk is as much as the cow, just drink water to give milk, insist on not weaning, give birth to the moon is good, cry the whole moon, now the child is in his early two years of age, want to come out and still milk pain. By the way, there is too much milk, the whole moon is sucking milk, feeding milk, sucking milk, often hard like stone nipple crack, even clothes touch all pain to death
How painful is it to be a mother? Bite your teeth and give birth to a baby? It’s too simple to think.
When you are still awake in the hospital bed and haven’t had time to enjoy the happy gathering of mother and child, the bursts of distending pain in your chest seem to remind you that this is the beginning.
After giving birth, women’s mammary glands begin to secrete milk, Because breast blood and body fluid are full, breast tube expands, breast expands as big as basketball, immature nipple has to face strong sucking from hungry baby again, chest seems not to be baby granary, but two bombs on fire. Papilla chapped, broken skin, even sucked bleeding, scabbed again bleeding… It is a kind of chronic torture, not too much at all.
When the milk is given, the milk will accumulate if the baby is not eaten in time accidentally, and even the wrong sleeping posture will cause milk knot. When the accumulation is serious, when the terrible mastitis comes…
In the face of breast-feeding pain, we can do this:
- Grasp the correct breast-holding posture so that the baby can contain the whole areola part; Don’t drink too greasy soup after delivery, which is easy to block or even induce mastitis. At the beginning of milk, use cold compress combined with gentle massage to make milk smoothly discharged. After lactation, do not pull out the nipple with great force, and you can smear the milk on the rupture. Be sure to pay attention to avoid infection. If the chapping is really severe, you can also suspend lactation, suck out milk with a breast pump, apply ointment and wait for healing before resuming lactation. If you suffer from mastitis, go to see a doctor as soon as possible and don’t carry it. You can choose safe lactation drugs.
Some studies say that women have lower pain thresholds and higher sensitivity to pain than men, but it seems to be the opposite in life. Women are more afraid of pain than men.
In fact, it is not that women are not afraid of pain, but rather that women have stronger pressure resistance than men.
No matter how painful or difficult it is for the children, women will choose to endure and persist, and will be honed step by step to achieve better psychological elasticity.
The baby is coming out soon, we must stick to it!
Breast milk is the best for babies and must be adhered to!
Choosing the role of mother is tantamount to choosing strength.