Watch out for children being hurt. You must do these 4 points.

Recently, a Harbin man has been detained for molesting children on the grounds of recruiting a model for a treasure’s children’s clothing.

Source: Internet

The detained man’s online name is [Zohn Mishu Mishu]. In the photos he released, there are many pictures of bare private parts with boy French kiss and boy, as well as some obscene tools for boys.

Source: Internet

Judging from the photos, the victims are about 3-6 years old.

Children of this age group may not know that the perpetrator’s behavior is hurting them! And the bad guys took advantage of it.

Just think, if a child can know that this is hurting them, if they know to tell their parents, presumably the perpetrators will be exposed early and fewer children will be victimized.

In our country, there is no perfect legislative protection for the crime of sexual abuse of children:

< < Criminal Law > > Article 237 The crime of child molestation refers to obscene acts other than sexual intercourse for the purpose of satisfying sexual stimulation. For children, it refers to boys or girls under the age of 14 and shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than five years or criminal detention.

If the offender attacks the boy, it will only constitute the crime of child molestation at most, and the maximum sentence will be only 5 years.

Sex education for children should be early rather than late.

Always remember that protecting our children should start with parents. When your children have already started to talk, these points should be carried out in life:

1

Tell the children that they came from the womb.

Tell the children that they all came from their mother’s womb, which was their earliest home.

Saying this to children can establish a good parent-child relationship.

You know, love is the premise that children can say anything to you.

Do a good job in birth education and let children know where they come from.

2

Teach children to name their sexual organs.

Almost when the child is 2 years old, we can teach the child to know all parts of his body, including sexual organs.

We can describe it through picture books or cartoon videos, so that children can accurately name penis, clitoris, testis, scrotum, labia majora, labia minora, etc.

Use words that children understand to describe the functions of these organs.

Photo Source: Protecting Doudou Video Screenshot

When bathing the child, let the child know his own body and be able to name the organs of his own body.

Not only should we understand ourselves, but also the bodies of the opposite sex. Let children know that men and women have different daily behaviors, for example, boys will urinate standing up and girls will urinate squatting.

Do a good job in gender education to let children know the difference between men and women.

3

Teach children to protect their bodies

Tell your child which organs belong to private parts and the private parts cannot be touched by others. If the private parts are touched, tell your parents immediately.

We can make a list of people who can touch their children’s private parts. The list can be the names of their mothers, fathers or grandparents, or the names of people allowed by their mothers.

No one is allowed to touch the child’s private parts except those on the list.

Photo Source: US Sex Assault Prevention Education Animation Screenshot

Teach children to cherish their own bodies and establish a sense of physical boundaries for children.

Don’t expose your child’s private parts outside, don’t expose your child’s private photos in your circle of friends.

Respect children, when children say they don’t like to be kissed by relatives, friends and elders, they firmly say no.

Do a good job in privacy education and teach children to have and respect the right to privacy.

4

Teach children to refuse temptation

Bad people may use snacks and items that children are interested in to tempt children. We need to teach children to refuse temptation.

In addition, parents should not let their children and strangers have the opportunity to be alone.

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