The birth of the baby is a major milestone in life, giving everyone new roles and becoming a precious mother and father.
What changes have taken place in what since everyone became a treasure mother and treasure father? Are there any happy things that can be shared with Dr. Clove?
Today is Father’s Day. Dr. Clove invited Peng Wentao’s father to write down his experiences and feelings. I wonder if everyone agrees?
I am at a loss.
To be honest, when my little beautiful girl was born, I didn’t feel too strong in what. I was surrounded by a group of people and felt very happy when I felt that I should be very happy.
However, in the face of her fist-sized little face, I felt very magical. I marveled that I would become a father from now on, but I didn’t know what to say to her about what, and I felt a little shy.
I had to turn around and ask about the situation of my child’s mother, and then I started a journey of novice fathers.
After leaving the delivery room and moving to the recovery area, I kept telling myself that I had to be mature and steady and have to look like a father. However, in fact, I was very psychologically empty. I was very afraid that my elders would think that I was all hands and feet and saw through my empty heart.
In the evening, when I had time alone with her, I put my chin on the guardrail of the crib and looked at her. I gently poked her little hand with my finger until she took my index finger. At that time, my heart suddenly tightened and a strange emotion flashed through my chest.
Love her more and more
In the first year of Xiaomeiniu’s birth, the changes were really great. At first, it was an ugly newborn, a little crumpled, a little dull and did not understand the response. Later, it grew up quickly, turning into a pumpkin face like blowing a balloon, fat.
Little Meiniu has also begun to take an interest in the world. She will keep observing the movements around her. She will stare at our faces for half a day in wait for a while. She will also laugh at her mother’s clowns like fun.
In fact, I also learned the clown-like actions of my child’s mother to amuse her, but she ignored me. When I made faces, I froze there to death in embarrassment.
However, I do love her more and more. I no longer show myself as I did in the first place to let my behavior conform to social norms. I love her, love her, like her, want to kiss her and hug her.
What is more important is that I really want her to respond to the amusing moves I have worked hard to come up with, so that I will not be so stupid and it will be better to compare the mother of the child.
What fun will it bring to be a father? The fact is, we have always been her toys, and we will try our best to be a big toy and compete for favor.
The daughter’s first cry was [father]!
Slowly, I began to adapt to my father’s status. I was no longer embarrassed and had feelings for her unilaterally. However, at that time, I did not realize that I was actually a super daughter control.
Until one day, my daughter, who had always loved her mother and ignored me, suddenly learned to shout.
Moreover, the first person to shout was not my mother. She looked at me with her beautiful phoenix eyes and called me “Dad”.
It is no exaggeration to say that it is really the general feeling of electricity. After going to work that day, I was distracted all day and was thinking:
Oh, my little beautiful girl, she called her father, she called her father! No, I have to be a what, and I have to show her that I have to be a what.
In this way, I drifted off for a day’s work. When I came home at night, no one was allowed to hold her. I was the only one to hold her. My hands were sore to death and I was not willing to hand her over.
However, my girl seems to have forgotten this one and did not think that anything extraordinary had happened in what.
Enjoy the time with the baby alone.
After that, I wanted to take the little beautiful girl out to play. First, she stayed at home rather stuffy. First, I wanted to seize the opportunity and enjoy the exclusive time with the little beautiful girl.
After going out, it was my happiest time. Without my mother and grandmother, the little beautiful girl was totally dependent on me. In the indoor children’s park, the baby crawled around in front and I crawled behind. She would see if I had followed from time to time. When tired, she would stretch out her hand and hug me.
When other children collide with her, I will immediately cross to the middle to separate them, and then look at her gently, so that she can continue to play without care.
When Xiong Haizi, who is much older, thinks she is in the way and pushes her rudely, I will stare at each other severely, or I will simply stop seriously until he dare not lean over again.
In the shopping mall, I am not very good at choosing clothes, so I will hold the little beautiful girl and let her choose for herself. We will communicate seriously.
Although at that time, she could not quite understand what I said and I could not understand her language, our communication was serious, because in the end I could always understand what she was looking at, and then she would happily cooperate and change into new clothes.
The happiest thing is to hear the clerk always praise me as a good father, although I know that people are mainly trying to achieve results.
In a word, my relationship with Xiaomeiniu was warming up rapidly at that time, and now I still feel very satisfied when I think about it.
You and my babbling ah, is the happiest don’t know what to say
Slowly, the little beautiful girl came to the outbreak of language. We spoke simple sentences. She could basically understand them and could speak some simple words.
A few days, when I was on a business trip, every time I pretended to call my child’s mother to express my concern and sympathy, she grabbed her mother’s cell phone at the other end of the phone as expected, and babbled and talked to me incessantly.
Although she didn’t really learn to speak, the two of us could still talk for 15 minutes or half an hour without knowing why. Most of the time, I would guess that she was talking about what.
Sometimes she is telling me that she saw the chicken and had a good time. Sometimes she is telling me how Grandma’s house is doing.
Although I can’t fully understand it, I am just very happy and happy. At this moment, I don’t regret not changing my broken notebook and let my wife buy my mobile phone first.
Successful running-in of husband-wife relationship
When Little Meiniu was born, my mother and I did not have a good life. Both of us often feel blind. How did we find such a partner? This year was the year when our respective problems broke out most.
Looking back now, marriage only started when what was married. It should still be marked by the birth of the child. Before, the two men talked about love for so long, and after a year or two after pulling the evidence, they thought there would be no more problems in running in.
In fact, there was no such thing as a break-in between the two people who did not work together to accomplish a difficult thing, regardless of whether they pulled the certificate or not.
By raising a little beautiful girl, our couple finally passed the running-in stage, and the roles played by the two in the family will probably be decided in this life, that is, she basically decides the family affairs.
Yes, I was defeated in the bitter internal power struggle, but I won the heart of the little beautiful girl, which is worth it.
Become a treasure dad and get what? Because I love her, everything I have experienced is the surest happiness.