In June of pregnancy, the wife’s stomach grows rapidly and becomes more [fun]. When you accompany her, you often encounter the legendary [fetal movement].
The movement of the stomach is wonderful!
Is fetal movement like what? As a non-party, you naturally cannot feel the beautiful experience of [small fish swimming].
However, as you can see, the wife’s belly has a small paw print scratched past.
Put your hands on your stomach, dong! It kicked you.
Don’t patronize, help her count the fetal movements. Under the action of hormones, she can’t sleep well at night now, and she is always distracted during the day. It may be more difficult to process information related to numbers.
Pregnant fathers have a unique advantage in counting fetal movements: carelessness.
Why do you say that? Because counting fetal movements is an easy thing for pregnant mothers to struggle with:
How many times do you move? How often does it work? How much is normal? Can counting an hour represent a day?
Generally speaking, if the doctor is lucky enough not to pay special attention to it, the pregnant mothers will sit or lie quietly after dinner every day and have a few hours of fetal movement.
The fetal movement within one minute can be counted as [once]. Under normal circumstances, the number is 3-5 times. It is not good to be too high or too low. It is necessary to count for another hour.
How about six times?
If for a period of time, it is basically 6 or 7 times a day, there is nothing wrong with it. Sudden changes are a sign of [bad] and need to be further examined in the hospital.
That was 6 times last month, and only 4 times in a few consecutive days this month, okay?
As the baby grows up, the fetal movement will indeed gradually decrease, so small gradual changes are normal.
If you have time, put your hand on her stomach and count it for an hour. She will be very happy to accept such generous help.
She wants a romantic night, but you’re a little scared?
In the second trimester of pregnancy, most pregnant mothers will have strong sexual impulses. However, many pregnant fathers dare not. Here are some tips that may be helpful.
1. Don’t be afraid, the baby can’t see it.
Some pregnant fathers worry that [the baby can see what I am doing from the womb], but they won’t.
In the pregnant mother’s belly, the baby is wrapped in the amniotic membrane. The outside of the amniotic membrane is a thick uterine wall. There is only a seam at the cervical opening leading to the vagina. Even if the baby is precocious, he cannot see the outside on the seam edge.
2. Don’t be afraid, you can’t poke the baby.
Some pregnant fathers are worried that [they will poke the baby], but they will not.
It was all caused by Xiao Huang Wen. One carelessness is that [the crazy dragon reaches the stamens and the lower abdomen is tilted into a rod shape], while those who know a little about human anatomy will play: the penis will grow longer and the vagina will grow longer; The cervix is very tight and the penis cannot enter at all, so induced abortion is so difficult.
The striking point is: don’t think you are very long.
3. Be gentle, there will be no harm at all.
Other pregnant fathers worry that [passion] will bring [harm], which may be true. But this kind of injury can be completely avoided.
Some men only care about themselves when they are lingering with women, and they also want each other to praise themselves [very good]. During pregnancy, this can’t be the case any more. You must first take care of her feelings.
When changing postures, ask her if she is uncomfortable or if she feels very comfortable. Some postures can not only make you experience pleasure, but also can not press your stomach. You can try them.
4. Worries are hard to dispel? Communication is important
Indeed, some physical conditions are not suitable for sex, and doctors will certainly take the initiative to tell you at this time. If you have not said so, you are worried again, and ask the doctor during the next prenatal examination.
Here’s a reminder to you: she is likely to interpret your worries as [not interested in her]. This is a big deal, so I advise you to take the initiative to talk to her about your worries and don’t worry alone.
Go to pregnant women’s school well,
Many hospitals will set up [novice classes] for pregnant parents to teach them precautions and coping skills after labor, natural labor and childbirth, as well as some knowledge about raising newborns.
Take an active part in it, and use it as an excuse not to take part in all kinds of friends pulling to eat meat and drink (well, I know your heart is bitter). Take an active part in it, take good notes, say hello to all questions, check with Dr. Clove if you don’t understand, or go to [ask the doctor] to ask.
Most of the content talked about by the pregnant women’s school is [how does the pregnant mother do it] [how does the pregnant mother do what], which seems to have nothing to do with you?
Be considerate of her, haven’t you heard of [one pregnancy and three years of stupidity]? At this time, you are still reliable!
Serious men are the sexiest. If you glance at them casually, you will find that she is watching you with the stars, and the feeling of falling in love at first will come back.
Is the baby room ready?
Is the baby’s room ready? He needs at least a bed, a glove rack and a wardrobe. Warm decorative colors and some dazzling and noisy pendants are also [optional].
If you haven’t started yet, it’s best to do it this month. New furniture needs formaldehyde elimination, so she has to be isolated and ventilated alone for a period of time. Painting, wallpaper what, or forget it.
If you have holidays, go out to play. During the safe second trimester of pregnancy, it is most suitable to walk around and do something you love to do.
Do you feel pregnant, too?
Cramps, gluttony, lumbago, frequent urination, as if you have all the feelings she has? Do you have one?
What, not pregnant, not pregnant, this is a common manifestation of male creatures during the pregnancy of female partners: pseudopregnancy syndrome.
You didn’t? What is proud of, only with deep feelings will there be!
How did this happen?
Because men are relatively slow in emotional feelings. You may not feel anxiety or stress, but they will affect you. For example, it makes you feel pregnant.
She is different, she can feel all her emotions, and then… although she feels [suffering], she can deal with them according to the symptoms.
Believe it or not, estrogen increases a lot in men during pregnancy, helping you to enhance your sensitivity and compassion. Of course, this increase level is not enough to catalyze large breasts or anything else, so you don’t have to worry about it.
When you come, you will settle down and follow your inner thoughts to help your wife do housework… Your heart really thinks so, don’t be embarrassed again…
By the way, even if estrogen is used as motivation, you also need to rest. Don’t be like her, housework can’t be finished at all…