For the first time, please give more advice: Guidelines for Baby Care for 0 ~ 3 Months Old

For babies, Coming into this world is a very important and uncertain adventure. At first, They don’t know that you are comforting, feeding and caring for them. They can feel comfortable or uncomfortable. But I don’t know why. As for newborns, The first thing to know is, Perhaps the most important point: They can’t understand that they are a person at all. I don’t even know that I have relations with others. However, Even at birth, They have already started to communicate with you, Give you a little hint, It shows that they are tired, hungry, etc. What parents have to do is help them understand. How much the world welcomes them, Their needs will be met. There is no crying for no reason. From birth, Crying is the main way for babies to let you know something is wrong with what. Newborns will not [attract your attention] by crying. Or [ordering] parents. Many babies within 3 months love to cry, Especially in the evening or at night. During this period, babies cannot cry autonomously. They cry because what is happening inside their bodies. Such as hunger, wet urine, cold, fear and loneliness, It may also be colic (because the newborn’s digestive system starts normally and works smoothly, It will take about 3 months). In a few weeks, you will begin to understand these different cries. Note: Quickly shaking babies is not a good way to keep them quiet. Even if they stop crying, It is also possible that they feel fear or even pain. If you feel tired, irritable, Let the family help, Don’t shake your baby hard because you are agitated. How to start communicating with your baby’s face is the first and most important shape for your baby to learn to recognize. People’s voice is also very important to them. Although they still can’t understand what. Your baby is interested in you-especially your face and voice. Although the baby can’t think, They can [feel] how you feel. If you are calm, he will be calm. If you are not happy, he will also be unhappy. Looking into the eyes is very necessary to establish a close relationship. If he turns his head sometimes, Don’t feel rejected, Because when babies communicate with people, It is very easy to get tired. Babies cannot understand everything that is happening around them. If you show them too much or do too much, They will feel uncomfortable. They are easily overwhelmed by various sounds, colors, shapes and strokes outside the uterus. Usually starting from about 6 weeks, Babies can smile at familiar faces, And can look at you carefully while smiling. By the time of 3 months, Babies can start giggling and laughing aloud. In these cases, when most doctors are picked up, The baby is not quiet, Not even for a while. The baby screamed and cried. By the age of 8, the baby will not laugh at anyone. Note: As a new parent, If most of the time you feel that you cannot meet the needs of your baby, Can’t respond to the baby in time, Or feel very negative about taking care of the baby, very disappointed with the baby, You’d better also consult a doctor. The baby’s hearing shows that the living fetus can hear the sound. But the newborn’s eye muscles are still immature, Can only see very close things. In the first three months, They will be attracted by faces, light, basic colors, strips, dots and patterns. But I don’t understand. By identifying the eyes, nose and mouth, Face is the first thing they can recognize. For 1 month, The baby’s eyes can move for a few seconds with the moving light. Can follow the moving face. At 6 weeks, The baby’s eyes can focus most of the time. After 3 months, They began to recognize specific faces and other things in life (such as their teddy bears). Hang some pictures of faces and simple toys on their cots. They can practice watching and recognizing. To respond to the baby as quickly as possible, This will make him understand, You will show up when he needs you. By about 7, 8 weeks, The baby began to feel his own voice, Makes a goo-goo sound and some simple vowel syllables. At 8 weeks, They can even make a sound to respond to you when they hear you. In these cases, after seeing a doctor for 2 months, The baby still cannot look at the speaker’s face when talking to him. The baby did not respond to the sound. It will not cause startle reflex due to sudden sound. The baby cannot pay attention to his face after 2 months. When the baby’s physical activity is awake, The newborn’s body moves, But they still don’t know that how makes some part of his body move. I don’t even know that part belongs to me. Babies within 8 weeks can’t control their body movement. All movements (including sucking, grasping, startling reflex, etc.) are involuntary or nerve reflex. From about 8 weeks, When you play on your stomach, They began to know how to raise their heads and kick their legs. Arms, fingers and legs are free to move. At the 3rd month, They will start to watch their hands and feet dancing in the air. Start waving your little fist at your face or anything else you want. They begin to know, They can affect the body’s feelings and movements. In these cases, the baby is unusually lazy or inflexible. One side of the baby’s hand or leg is stiffer and more inflexible than the other side. Stronger or weaker. One side moves more than the other. Babies can control their heads unusually [well] (neck and back muscles are stiff). Babies always clench their fists. Care for daily life requires attention. Newborns are usually well fed (able to drink enough) after a few weeks. And usually there is no clear day-night rule of waking and sleeping. Most babies still need to be fed 1-2 times at night. Few babies can sleep all night. When you wake up at night, When you appease them, Some babies can calm down and fall asleep by themselves, But most of them need to be fed. In these cases, the baby still has difficulty feeding after seeing a doctor for a few weeks. The baby cries for a long time every day. It is difficult for the baby to sleep. Compared with other babies, it is too quiet or nervous. This way, the baby hangs a face doll or big head photo above their cot. Right at them. Move different parts of their bodies to see where they like to be touched. Talk to them gently and call their names. Play music to them. Sing to them. Hug them more (is this different from what you think? Do you often hear people say you can’t hold too many? ). When you talk to the baby, Let him look at your face. Learn their little tricks and voices. Shake them gently. Feed them several times a day. Of course, we must also have enough sleep. Every baby is unique and every child is different. It may develop at different rates. If your baby cannot complete all the things mentioned in this article, Perhaps it is just because he is studying and developing hard in other aspects. But babies usually have relatively consistent development rules. If you have doubts, consult your doctor about your concerns to ensure that your baby is developing normally in his own way. If your baby has what problems, the sooner you find them, the sooner you get help, the better. Remember, the most important thing is to help them progress.