Tag: Parenting

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Talk to your child about sex, never too early

We have already mentioned in the article “Talk to your child about sex, he didn’t pay for it.” Sex is a part of our life. Parents need not worry that it is too early to communicate with their children on the topic of [sex]. Before starting a conversation with preschool children, Parents need to make some preparations. However, don’t try to prepare answers to all the questions. The most important thing is to listen carefully to the children asking what questions and help them find answers with an open and tolerant attitude. To let children know that [sex] questions are not [bad] questions, you can ask your parents. What questions do preschool children ask about sex at different stages? What Read More …

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What is a good schoolbag like? Don’t let children’s schoolbags become health risks,

In addition to the actual role, backpacks of different styles and fabrics are also items for children to show their individuality. Of course, the premise of all this is to use them properly. For children, shoulder bags are better than shoulder bags, messenger bags or handbags, because this design uses the two strongest muscle groups of the human body-the muscles of the back and waist-to support the weight of the whole backpack. If used properly, the weight of the whole backpack can be reasonably distributed to all parts of the body, and the possibility of shoulder and neck damage will be much less than that of messenger bags and handbags. However, if the backpack is too heavy or not used Read More …

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Is it a language barrier for children to write typos?

A mother contacted me and said she suspected her son had language barriers. The child is seven years old, Recently, I have always written wrong words. The types of mistakes are surprisingly consistent. Many words with left and right structures like [yang], Now he often writes the “day” on the left, which was originally on the right, but sometimes he can write it correctly. I realized that this situation had only started for two months, so I advised the mother not to worry, to go back and observe, and told her that this little mistake was exactly the right psychological development in my opinion. This is not a psychological development problem at all. Children’s memorization of Chinese characters, Especially in Read More …

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For the first time, please give more advice: Guidelines for Baby Care for 0 ~ 3 Months Old

For babies, Coming into this world is a very important and uncertain adventure. At first, They don’t know that you are comforting, feeding and caring for them. They can feel comfortable or uncomfortable. But I don’t know why. As for newborns, The first thing to know is, Perhaps the most important point: They can’t understand that they are a person at all. I don’t even know that I have relations with others. However, Even at birth, They have already started to communicate with you, Give you a little hint, It shows that they are tired, hungry, etc. What parents have to do is help them understand. How much the world welcomes them, Their needs will be met. There is no Read More …

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Do you use pacifiers for children?

Some children just like the feeling of sucking, They are happiest when they suck something. Divert the baby’s attention from the time when the baby is vaccinated, drawn blood and examined. Pacifiers can divert their attention, Let them obediently cooperate with the examination. Help the baby sleep. When the child does not sleep well, Put a pacifier on TA, You can be quiet in an instant. Protect your ears when flying. Baby, when flying, They will not consciously relieve the discomfort of their ears by swallowing or yawning like adults. A pacifier will just allow children to swallow. So as to relieve ear discomfort. Reduce the risk of sudden infant death. Having a pacifier while sleeping can reduce the risk Read More …

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Let Children Sleep Better: 7 Tips

Most children under the age of 5 have some sleep problems. Sleep is inherently complicated and can be affected by many factors. Moreover, poor sleep will not only make children feel tired, but will affect them in all aspects. Children will become dawdling, angry, overexcited and even stunted. The following advice applies to children of any age, And not only to make them sleep well, It will also make them happier during the day. To some extent, It can also make parents sleep and feel better. 1. Ensure a fixed sleep and wake-up time. Children’s biological clocks are greatly affected by sleep and wake-up time. If you specify sleep and wake-up times, You basically set the child’s biological clock, He’ll Read More …

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Novice dad, don’t panic, 6 moves to help you get rid of crying baby

Taking care of the baby is not only the mother’s job, but also the father must take part in it. For many new treasure dads, there is such a question, how to deal with the crying baby? The answer is that treasure dads need to pay more patience. Why does the baby cry? Before the baby could speak, Crying is the most important way for them to communicate with the world. As the baby grows up, treasure parents will slowly know what the baby wants to express in every cry. However, many novice parents will feel that the baby’s cries are no different from what’s. The following is what the baby may want to express when crying: urinating; Be hungry; Read More …

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It is common for babies to have [milk valves] in their stool.

Can be related to eating too much; Weak gastrointestinal function, etc. If there are no special symptoms, there is no need to pay attention to them, and there is no need to reduce the infant’s food intake just for this. If the stool is bloodshot, it should be tested for blood (whether there are red blood cells in the stool routine; Whether occult blood is positive), if anal fissure can be eliminated, intestinal hemorrhage should be considered, and milk protein allergy should be considered first.

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The list of wise choices issued by the American Academy of Pediatrics

The American Academy of Pediatrics has released two [wise choices] lists of 10 items, listing common unnecessary examinations and treatments in pediatrics. (1) Obvious viral infectious respiratory diseases (sinusitis, Pharyngitis, bronchitis) should not use antibacterial drugs. (2) Cough medicine and cold medicine should not be prescribed or recommended for respiratory diseases in children under 4 years old. (3) CT scan is not necessary for immediate evaluation of mild head trauma. According to the Clinical Observation/Pediatric Emergency Nursing Applied Research Network Standard (PECARN), To determine whether imaging examination is needed. (4) Neuroimaging is not necessary for simple thermal epilepsy (CT, MRI examination. (5) CT scans are not necessary in routine abdominal pain assessment. (6) Do not use large doses of dexamethasone Read More …