One of the Mistakes of Good Mothers: Too Tolerant of Children

There are many things on the Internet like [don’t do this to children], Or the saying that “children can be better if they do more of this”. All want to be a good mother, However, on the way to being a good mother, It is likely that some common mantra, old people’s classics and some [positive energy] on the Internet have gone wrong. Accompanying children to grow up is a beautiful word. But I wish to tell mothers and expectant mothers that, The journey to raise children is difficult, There are many bumps and trivial details, It doesn’t happen overnight. Don’t fail to fulfill your responsibility as a parent in the first place, Give correct guidance to children, He also Read More …

Is the child disobedient? Maybe it’s just because you don’t understand [positive upbringing]

Your child is slowly growing up, and suddenly you find that he is not so good. You always say “no” and he is determined to do what he is not allowed to do. Many parenting experts call this stage the “rebellious period of young children”, which is usually around the age of two and a half to three. This time is the germination period of children’s self-awareness. Some parents may use their authority to restrict and order their children, hoping to make them obey. However, there are also some parents who find that children at this stage have valuable independent needs. They are more willing to respect and accept their children’s precious autonomy, give them more choices and guide them Read More …

Are you ready to be a parent?

In order for the baby to thrive, novice parents need to deal with the following problems. Adjust one’s state of mind Calm down as soon as possible: It is inevitable that there will be some tension in the face of new life. After the tension, Parents need to stay calm, Observe the baby’s behavior carefully, Take care of your baby’s growth. Don’t neglect your partner: The arrival of a new baby often adds a lot of fuss to the family. But no matter how much your life has changed, Please keep normal family activities as much as possible, Ensure rest time, Always spend some time each day with your partner, A good relationship between husband and wife is the cornerstone Read More …

Office workers do this, and the children they educate are no worse than stay-at-home mothers.

Ding Ma said: Due to the relationship between the national conditions, most families in our country are now dual-worker families. Both husband and wife usually take care of both ends of the working family and often neglect the discipline of their children, resulting in many educational problems for children, even more indifferent parent-child relationship and many modern parent-child diseases. This is not only a family problem, but also a social problem. Next, let’s talk about how families with two employees should properly handle the relationship between work and family. Is Xiong Haizi in trouble? Scientific parenting to help Nowadays, children [have too many things], and parents who run on both sides of the working family often feel that they do Read More …

Is it a what experience to have a father who plays games with him?

My father has been playing some online games for 13 years. Yes, it is an antique online game more than ten years ago. My father is a stubborn and long-term person. This article is to commemorate the eleven years of father and son. It is about the fourth grade of primary school for my father and I to join the Beggars’ Sect. My friends and I fell in love with the stand-alone version of the game. We walked through the vast desert, vast green mountains and the heroine in the game. Cheered for defeating the BOSS of a checkpoint, He racked his brains for the complicated plot progress. Shortly after the first day of the junior high school, The game Read More …

Is it a what experience to have a particularly cool father?

As a man who has lived for 21 years, There are many things I can’t talk about all my life. But I can definitely say, In my whole life, I will benefit a lot from my father. I don’t know how many 20 years in my life will come. But for all the 20 years he was with me, He will always teach me, protect me, The memories and wisdom treasured in his life, Share it with me one by one. Democratic dad. I think the coolest thing about dad is that, Think of me as an individual equal to him. I grew up with my father, Very free, There was never an entrance guard at home. I used to Read More …

Will the baby spoil him when he cries?

As a new mother, what should you do when the baby cries? Many people may have told you their clever plan. Among such suggestions, the most destructive one is: [Let the baby cry enough]. This advice rarely works, but it is very common. If blindly followed, it will usually only make the mother numb and cause undue cracks between the mother and the child. Many studies have found that the more time babies spend with their parents, the better the parent-child relationship will develop. Mothers should not make their children cry enough, but they should not always make it an obligation to stop crying. There are no specific regulations on whether or not to let the child cry and how Read More …

What should I do when my child is upset? (2)

There were two points in front (what should I do when the child is in a mood? (Part I)), let’s continue to talk. 3. Timely Control of Children We need to give children room to control and adjust their emotions, so that children can get exercise and study, and also let children get a sense of autonomy. However, when children lose control of their emotions and lose control of themselves, adults need to help control them immediately. This is the protection of children: On the one hand, children should not be allowed to do stupid things to hurt themselves, such as not being able to harm themselves, or throwing cups to cause fragments to hurt themselves; On the other hand, Read More …

What should I do when my child is upset? (Part I)

Children are upset, which is believed to be something every parent will encounter. How should you deal with the [unreasonable] Xiong Haizi? What principles do you need to stick to? According to the importance of each principle and the degree to which it is easy to be ignored, Dr. Clove recommends the following principles to parents. Step 1 Take care of yourself first The reason why this article is put first is that it is very easy to ignore and crucial. Similar to the safety instructions on the plane, when the oxygen mask falls down, adults with children should quickly wear it for themselves before wearing it for their children. It takes wisdom to help children deal with emotions, However, Read More …

Talk to your children about sex. It’s the best protection for them

In today’s society where sexual information is everywhere, talking about sex with adolescent children as parents is actually a kind of protection for children, allowing children to reserve more knowledge and to suffer as little harm as possible. So, are you ready to have a talk about sex with your children? Let’s take a look. We should pay attention to what during this conversation. Give teenagers enough respect, Nowadays, teenagers are often labeled as lazy, exotic and irresponsible. Of course, It also includes promiscuity. Adolescence can be said to be the most unpleasant period in life: Without what autonomy, one must go to school every day, and one’s leisure time is stuffed with various arrangements by parents. As a teenager, Read More …