Perhaps many people understand this truth, don’t go straight to the point when having sex, there should be some foreplay. But in practice, I don’t know where to start.
Do you have to touch private places as soon as you come up? Of course not!
This time Dr. Clove will come to talk to you about the sensitive zone.
Sensitive bands are never just genitals.
Speaking, human beings are really a strange animal. Other animals have sex for the purpose of giving birth to offspring, while human beings have sex for pleasure, and the contact place is never limited to the vicinity of genitals.
The touch from your partner, even in areas other than your private parts, will feel very pleasant. These areas are the so-called sensitive zones.
Which parts are sensitive zones?
Recently, Finnish scientists have carefully studied the problem of sensitive zones in the human body.
Researchers interviewed 704 young people online through questionnaires, of whom 3/4 were women. In addition to asking about sexual orientation, sexual activity and sexual satisfaction, the most important thing is for each interviewee to point out the following points on the portrait in the topic:
- When you are touched by your partner, what parts do you touch when you masturbate? What parts do you think will produce sexual arousal when touching your partner? What parts do you think will produce sexual arousal when your partner masturbates, what parts do you think will produce sexual arousal when touching your partner
Which areas do we like? Let’s take a look at the following animation
The brighter the area, the more people feel that this part of themselves will produce sexual arousal when masturbating or being touched by their partners.
Apart from those parts that few people feel sensitive, it is obvious that the brightest areas are concentrated around the genitals, and women also include the areas around the breasts and nipples, whether masturbating or being with their partners.
However, if you look closely, you will find:
- When masturbating, the sensitive zone is limited to the vicinity of sexual organs (women also include breasts and nipples); When the partner caresses, there are many other parts that can trigger relatively strong sexual arousal, especially the chest, buttocks, neck and inner thigh.
When we are with a partner, almost the whole body may be sensitive. Even if we only take the average, more than one-fifth of our body areas are very sensitive. Moreover, women’s bodies have more areas than men that can stimulate sexual arousal, which may be because women are more sensitive to touch.
Why don’t you feel it when you touch yourself?
Why do you have to touch many sensitive belts in your body to arouse your sexual desire, but you can’t do it yourself?
On the one hand, this is because we are often not sensitive to our own touch, just like others will feel itchy when tickling, but we don’t feel this way when tickling ourselves. If you touch yourself casually, you will be aroused by sex, isn’t it sick?
On the other hand, it is because of our human particularity. Touching and sex are not only for us to breed offspring, but more importantly, caressing will bring a sense of need and intimacy between partners.
As mentioned earlier, the study also asked the respondents what they thought were the sensitive zones of their partners. Are they sure? As for the situation of caressing each other, the partners have guessed more accurately, which may indicate that the small partners have enough communication in foreplay and know how to make each other comfortable.
It is not always good to go straight to the point.
Almost everyone who masturbates or caresses with a partner starts with the most sensitive areas of the sexual organs, chest, neck, legs and hips, and then involves the sub-sensitive areas, such as back, arms, waist and face. But researchers also found that although men like to touch sexual organs from the beginning, women prefer to start with non-sexual organs.
The study also found that when partners touch our sexual organs, the degree of sexual arousal is not as good as masturbation. It seems that one’s own body still knows best.
In addition, some men may have strong sexual arousal when they touch the perianal area to masturbate, but they do not necessarily like to be touched by their partners. Perhaps they need more trust.