Tag: Child

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Six Suggestions for Parents of Second Child: Help [Dabao] Accept [Er Bao]

With the gradual opening of the two-child policy, the current situation can be said to be that some people are happy and others are sad. For example, the following example is more typical. A Mother’s Question 问题: My son is three years old, and I gave birth to another daughter in August this year. Before we conceived, we did a lot of ideological work for our son, but it didn’t work very well. Without fully doing the work, I was pregnant with a second child. Now we buy anything for our daughter, and our son won’t let us use it. We all say it belongs to him. What should we do? 应对: STEP 1 Hit To be honest, I beat Read More …

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How can family members negotiate when their parenting concepts are inconsistent?

Editor’s note: Dr. Clove and Zhihu jointly held a round-table discussion on [raising a second child]. This article is one of the high-quality contents produced in the discussion. Judging from China’s national conditions, the family members who need to negotiate with their children generally include their spouses and the elderly. So how to negotiate with their families should be considered from these two aspects. How to negotiate with your spouse Both husband and wife are the legal guardians of the children and the most important nurturers. Whether it is a nuclear family that includes husband and wife and minor children or a large family that invites the elderly to live together, both husband and wife are the masters and core Read More …

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[Reminder] from Earwax: You can’t pull it out if you want.

Have you ever pulled out earwax? Have you ever gone to the hospital because of earwax? In the outpatient clinic of otolaryngologists, patients often come to see a doctor because of ear itching, ear pain and ear tightness, a large part of which is caused by excessive or improper ear wax removal. Therefore, the author of this article combines his own clinical theory and practice to talk about earwax. Earwax is what? What is it? Earwax, medically called cerumen, is a substance secreted by the skin glands of the ear canal, mixed with dust and dandruff. Earwax is divided into two types, one is dry cerumen and the other is wet cerumen, which is commonly known as [oil ear]. [oil Read More …