Six Suggestions for Parents of Second Child: Help [Dabao] Accept [Er Bao]

With the gradual opening of the two-child policy, the current situation can be said to be that some people are happy and others are sad. For example, the following example is more typical. A Mother’s Question 问题: My son is three years old, and I gave birth to another daughter in August this year. Before we conceived, we did a lot of ideological work for our son, but it didn’t work very well. Without fully doing the work, I was pregnant with a second child. Now we buy anything for our daughter, and our son won’t let us use it. We all say it belongs to him. What should we do? 应对: STEP 1 Hit To be honest, I beat Read More …

December 17, 2019February 3, 2020 bear

Dabao is not good to Er Bao. It’s not that he doesn’t understand. In fact, it’s all the parents’ fault.

Editor’s Note: Not long ago, there was a news report that a 13-year-old girl was extremely capricious because she was spoiled by her family. After learning that her mother was pregnant with a second child, she forced her parents to give up her second child by suicide. In the end, her mother had to choose to have a baby. Although some parents may not be willing to admit it, from the psychological theory of family relations, Dabao’s resistance to the two treasures is the whole blame, but in fact it is still up to parents to bear the blame. This pot is divided into two types: Short-term pot: Parents failed in their communication with Dabao in the event that Dabao Read More …