Tag: Second Child

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If you don’t want to be forced to have a second child…

It’s time to have a holiday again, and I want to see relatives I haven’t seen for a long time. Of course, I will certainly be urged to have a second child. Anyway, I really don’t want to have a baby now, so I answered my mother like this: having a baby is not as simple as buying toys? Clearly, it is a great event in life to consider all aspects. As for the problems of aunt, aunt, aunt and grandmother and Wang Dama next door… after you have settled your mother, you have already won! Is it really good to have a second child every two years? Even if you want to have a baby, wait for the little Read More …

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Don’t be ambushed by sugar demons on the way to [create]

Eight years ago, Xiao Wang found out that he suffered from type 1 diabetes: he has been using insulin to control blood sugar. Last year, at the age of 30, he just got married, but he was always [hard] unable to get up when he was having sex. He always felt a little difficult to say. But because he was eager to [make a human], he was urged by his family to go down to the hospital for examination. Originally, this was diabetes at work. Type 1 diabetes is more common in teenagers, and the onset of type 2 diabetes is getting younger and younger. Diabetes patients in childbearing age have to be parents after all. However, this [human-making] road Read More …

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Six Suggestions for Parents of Second Child: Help [Dabao] Accept [Er Bao]

With the gradual opening of the two-child policy, the current situation can be said to be that some people are happy and others are sad. For example, the following example is more typical. A Mother’s Question 问题: My son is three years old, and I gave birth to another daughter in August this year. Before we conceived, we did a lot of ideological work for our son, but it didn’t work very well. Without fully doing the work, I was pregnant with a second child. Now we buy anything for our daughter, and our son won’t let us use it. We all say it belongs to him. What should we do? 应对: STEP 1 Hit To be honest, I beat Read More …

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Do you want to have a second child or not? How to raise two children? You need [methodology for raising a second child]!

Perhaps [preparing for pregnancy] and [raising] are not the topics of your current life, but having a baby is a must for most families. With the opening of the two-child policy, the arrival of the second child and the changes TA will bring have gradually become matters that parents need to consider. Do you want to have a second child or not? What new challenges may parents face? This week, Dr. Clove, together with Zhihu, invited all guests to talk about this topic. Did the guest you want to ask participate in this activity? What do you want to ask about what? 点击这里, 快来参与吧!

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How can family members negotiate when their parenting concepts are inconsistent?

Editor’s note: Dr. Clove and Zhihu jointly held a round-table discussion on [raising a second child]. This article is one of the high-quality contents produced in the discussion. Judging from China’s national conditions, the family members who need to negotiate with their children generally include their spouses and the elderly. So how to negotiate with their families should be considered from these two aspects. How to negotiate with your spouse Both husband and wife are the legal guardians of the children and the most important nurturers. Whether it is a nuclear family that includes husband and wife and minor children or a large family that invites the elderly to live together, both husband and wife are the masters and core Read More …

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Want to have a second child soon? How Increases Hit Rate?

The comprehensive two-child policy was finally implemented. Lao Wang next door wanted to have a second child for many years, and finally the country gave him a chance. After working hard for less than half a year, his daughter-in-law’s stomach still did not move. Today, I ran into Lao Wang and heard him sigh with emotion: “I did not dare to have a second child when I wanted to have it before, but now I dare to have it but I cannot have it!” ] If anyone dares to say that he [can’t], Lao Wang will definitely say [who said] angrily. The last time we went to the hospital for examination, the doctor said there was no problem, and we Read More …

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Dabao is not good to Er Bao. It’s not that he doesn’t understand. In fact, it’s all the parents’ fault.

Editor’s Note: Not long ago, there was a news report that a 13-year-old girl was extremely capricious because she was spoiled by her family. After learning that her mother was pregnant with a second child, she forced her parents to give up her second child by suicide. In the end, her mother had to choose to have a baby. Although some parents may not be willing to admit it, from the psychological theory of family relations, Dabao’s resistance to the two treasures is the whole blame, but in fact it is still up to parents to bear the blame. This pot is divided into two types: Short-term pot: Parents failed in their communication with Dabao in the event that Dabao Read More …

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When the child is born, should it be mainly taken by grandparents or parents?

Editor’s note: [Who will take the children] is often a topic that easily causes family disputes. Grandparents are [experienced] and parents are the most nervous people. Who is more suitable? This content comes from the round table activity of “Methodology for Raising Two Children” jointly organized by Dr. Clove and Zhihu. How to nurse, how to soak milk powder, how to change diapers, how to dress children, how to coax children to sleep? How to do children with fever, cough and diarrhea? These old people all understand, while young people will learn. Who is more suitable as the main caretaker? As a new parent, he should be the main supporter. Whether it is a child’s daily life problem or a Read More …

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Do children’s earwax need to be dug? Mom and Dad, don’t do this

Today is the annual “National Ear Care Day” and this year’s publicity theme is “Pay Attention to Children’s Hearing Health”. Today we will talk about “earwax”. Many mothers see earwax in their babies’ ears, and obsessive-compulsive disorder attacks immediately. They have to pay for their children, preferably until they can clean it up. Little imagine, your action is not only unnecessary, superfluous, but also likely to hurt the child’s ears and hearing. Therefore, parents are not recommended to pick out their children’s ears. Why can’t the baby’s ears be pulled out? Children’s ear canal is narrower than that of adults, and skin immunity is more fragile. Improper ear removal may even cause otitis externa. In fact, normal earwax will not Read More …

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Should older women pay attention to what when giving birth?

For various reasons, many women did not decide to have a baby until they were in their 30s. And because of the formal implementation of the two-child policy, many couples also began to consider whether to have a second baby. In actual work, there are indeed many elderly women who ask me about having children. Today, I will use this article to elaborate on the birth of children by elderly women. Can I still have children when I am old? Yes. As long as there is normal menstruation, it means that the reproductive system still has the ability to ovulate and conceive life. However, it should be emphasized that it is really more difficult to conceive a baby as one Read More …