Tag: Corporal Punishment

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Do you really know the consequences of beating children? Parents were silent after watching… … …

When I took the bus, I saw a three or four-year-old child crying, probably because he did not want to go to kindergarten. In my opinion, children of this age group are in the experience period of separation and anxiety, unwilling to separate from their parents and refusing to invest in a relatively unfamiliar environment, which is perfectly normal. The mother’s husband was angry and shouted at the child’s father: “You don’t care!” ] The child’s father was quite executive. He picked up the child and put it on his leg. He slapped his ass. The crying came to an abrupt end. After the whole car was silent for three seconds, the child’s mouth gushed with explosive cries. The child’s Read More …

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Should children be punished for their mistakes? Does foreign [Time-Out] work?

Parents of children aged 3-5 often face a very tangled question when their children make mistakes-should they punish their children? If children are punished, what is more appropriate? Is there anything what needs to pay attention to when using these methods? Never corporal punishment of children For corporal punishment, many parents know that it is not good, but more parents still hold the mentality of “beating when necessary”. First of all, corporal punishment is a kind of punishment with low efficiency and high cost, which cannot be equated with the punishment to be mentioned in this article. Secondly, the purpose of punishment is to make children understand the rules and recognize mistakes, but corporal punishment will make children repeat it Read More …

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These four methods of educating children are not helpful to you.

Threatening Safety Education Parents are most concerned about their children’s life safety, but the most common practice for parents in China is to use various exaggerated horror stories to educate their children on safety. But intimidation will erect a barrier to children’s growth. When I was carrying out safety education for first-grade children, I found that when I asked [why can’t I do this], the answer was polarized: One answer is [because bad people will hurt you/burn you/electrocute you/burn you to death] and the other is [because bad people may hurt you/electrical appliances will make your face ugly, you have to take injections and medicine, you are also very uncomfortable/fire will burn your new clothes out, and you have to Read More …

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[Impulse is the devil], educate children to use the right method,

Although Ding Ma often stressed through articles that in the process of educating children, this method should be avoided, but there are still many parents who firmly believe that “a filial son is born under a stick” and “a child cannot be beaten without success”, believing that beating a child is for the good of the child and to prevent the child from going astray. There are also some parents who, although they think it is not very good to beat their children, still hold them in their arms [they still have to beat them when necessary], or when their children are disobedient, they cannot help greeting them. The most common way for these parents is [spanking]. They think it Read More …