Tag: Children’s Education

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My family has a woman who has grown up at the beginning: daughter, please deal with her first menstruation like this.

Most girls have menarche around the age of 12, But the earliest may be as early as 8 years old. So, Parents had better let their daughters understand as soon as possible that what is menstruation, Help her get ready. I’m not gonna tell you, I was fifteen or sixteen years old, I still don’t understand why menstruation in TV advertisements is blue, And mine is not… After all, No matter for Chinese parents who are not good at sex education, Or a sensitive girl, Menstruation is an awkward topic. Let’s talk about it. how can help girls better prepare for their first menstruation. Start early, More Communication Parents had better tell their daughters as soon as possible, What physical Read More …

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Is it really so difficult for children to do their homework well?

Many parents find it difficult to understand why their children just don’t like to do their homework. It seems that it is obviously a very simple thing and only needs to be completed on time, but the children are repeatedly procrastinating, full of mistakes and even refusing to do their homework. Many parents explain this as their children are too lazy or do not listen to lectures in class, followed by scolding or attending cram schools. However, the result is often that cram schools are not effective and scolding is ineffective. Homework problem, what should I do? What do parents think of their children’s homework? More than half of the parents who come to me to consult their children’s problems Read More …

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Will it affect children’s independence to sleep in separate rooms too late? See what the psychological consultant said

During the growth of their children, I believe many parents have experienced a perplexity-considering how and when to sleep in separate rooms with their children. Let’s discuss some topics related to sleeping in separate rooms. Will sleeping in separate rooms affect children’s independence? According to some experiences, Parents sleep with their children for a long time, It may bring some obstacles to children’s independence. In fact, There is not necessarily a direct connection between the two. Looking back on our childhood, Many people have no conditions to sleep in separate rooms at home, but parents may pay attention to cultivating our independence in other aspects. In fact, it cannot be simply said that sleeping in separate rooms will lead to Read More …

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Do you want to attend the [so expensive] early education class?

Whether to enroll their children in early education classes or not, I believe every family’s parents who have acceptable financial conditions have struggled. First of all, let’s take a look at the what that everyone is struggling with: square: of course, let the children go to the early education class! Improve children’s intelligence and win at the starting line. Can contact children and exercise social skills. Early education classes are more professional and can guide parents. Can let children learn skills. Teachers can cultivate children’s good habits. Can let me spare time to concentrate on accompanying children. The children around us go, we also want to go. Opposition: I don’t plan to let children go to early education classes! Early Read More …

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Four suggestions to stop being helpless when your child loses his temper.

Anger is a normal human emotion. Everyone has the right to be angry, and children are no exception. However, out-of-control anger can lead to physical and behavioral problems, making children aggressive and even making behaviors that hurt themselves and others. Therefore, even children should learn to manage their anger. Why should children learn to manage anger? In one’s life, aggressiveness begins in early childhood. Children in this period cannot express their emotions through words. Compared with other times, aggressiveness is easier and stronger. It is necessary for children to learn to control their emotions in early childhood, otherwise the increasingly aggressive emotions may affect their future relationships with classmates, friends and family. A study also found that 1/7 of the Read More …

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Don’t regret missing the golden age of language development: 4 Simple Ways to Cultivate Baby’s Language Expression Ability

Many parents asked me how to improve their children’s social skills. The problem is simple and complicated. It is said that it is simple because on the surface, the social ability in childhood seems to make children more cheerful and more fond of making friends. Said it was complicated, It is because the cultivation of children’s social ability is closely related to their own temperament type, family environment and social environment. There can be no formulaic method. Social skills are a series of comprehensive skills that people need to communicate and interact with each other in work and life. These include language skills, It also includes executive power, decision-making power and self-confidence. For children of different ages, With regard to Read More …

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A 35-year-old mother who gave birth to a daughter said: How did my father train me?

I have a daughter and I love her. I don’t know if everything I do is what my daughter needs, but I still gradually have more confidence than before. This confidence comes from my more patient listening to my children. Yesterday, I accompanied my child to run her scheduled target in the sun: 6 kilometers. On the way back, she cheerfully told me about the movie she had just watched. In fact, I may not have listened to it, but I nodded from time to time and asked for two sentences. As she walked home from the playground, she chattered and I listened patiently and silently. When approaching the gate of the community, the child said, “Mom, I like being Read More …

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Children often say headache and stomachache. Are they cheating their parents?

Often listen to mothers half fun half helpless complaints: children say playing the piano, headache, stomachache; As soon as I went out to play, I was fine. When I said I was going to do my homework, I had a stomachache and headache. When it comes to watching TV, it’s all right. Children are still not as intelligent as adults. No new what tricks can be made up. However, Parents should pay attention to the fact that, There are statistics abroad, When about 40% of the children said they had a headache or stomachache, Not necessarily an excuse, It is really head or stomach discomfort. To remind parents, If children really often say [headache] [stomachache], We should go to the Read More …

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My mother in the United States will show you the kindergarten affiliated to California State University in the United States.

A few years ago, I immigrated to the United States with my husband and gave birth to my son [Cat Darling] in 2013. After traveling around, I found a university with its own kindergarten, California State University at Fulton. This kindergarten is specially designed for [mothers and students] who have children in the school. The relaxed attendance time and extra long care time make mothers and students have no worries. Importantly, there is also a nursing room where mothers and students can nurse their young babies during recess. With some other reasons, I came up with the idea of taking my son to study together and was lucky enough to enter this university smoothly. Let me introduce this different kindergarten Read More …

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Reading Picture Books: Beware of Strangers’ Help

Children like to be noticed by others, and they are often very enthusiastic about the appreciation and help from the outside world. This is not bad at all, but it is easy to be used by hostile people. What should adults do if they ask their children to lead the way, help find people or pets, etc. What if the other party is a bad person with no good intentions? Should how teach children to identify bad strangers so as to ensure their personal safety? In order to give children a good childhood, Dr. Clove gave parents the following advice: 1. Parents should clearly tell their children that when strangers ask for help, they must first understand whether they have Read More …