The small town girl became a doctor from a top prestigious school, and the [idle book] that inspired her life was surprising!

Does your child like reading? He loves reading what? Perhaps in our parents’ hearts, we all have a list of books that we want our children to read. We will support and encourage our children to read books that we think are [educational]. If the books our children read are not what we like, will you continue to support and encourage them, or will you simply and roughly prevent them from reading [idle books] in your eyes? Look at the experience of Dr. Pan Wenying, a bioengineer at Stanford University, when he was a child, and you will know how to choose. I was born in a small town in Southwest China where education is not well developed. First I Read More …

Should parents interfere when children choose who to make friends with?

You don’t like a friend of your child’s and think that your child always suffers from playing with him/her? Worried that the child will learn bad after him/her? Experts believe that children under 12 do need parents’ advice when choosing friends. How do you care, the answer is here. When it comes to intervention, it must intervene decisively. I really didn’t think I would interfere with children’s friendship before. I thought that parents’ interference in children’s friendship was like interference in freedom of love and marriage, and was a manifestation of autocracy. But I intervened, and I was glad I did. I told Dalin that we would not go to his classmate H’s house, not to his birthday party, and Read More …

What if the child is nervous in public?

Will your children be nervous and speechless in front of many people? When children are nervous, do you all have what methods to help children relieve their nervousness? Let’s see how this child’s parents help him relieve his nervousness. The prelude to a class speech Dalin’s school will arrange a class speech every semester from the second grade. At the beginning of the semester, the teacher will send parents a speech task statement for this semester, including the theme, the content that can be covered, the length, the speech skills that need to be learned, how parents can coach, and finally attach a speech schedule, indicating the speech date of all children. The theme of this semester’s speech by Dalin’s Read More …

Don’t touch these minefields when teaching your baby to speak.

Language development is a favorable tool for baby’s thinking development. 0 ~ 3 years old is an important period for baby’s language development. During this period, adequate language input and appropriate guidance can lay a good foundation for baby’s future language expression ability development. But during this period, there are always some baby’s performance that worries mothers. My daughter always talks to herself and babbles. The family does not know that she said what. When I went to early childhood education, other children interacted with the teacher. My baby what understood it and refused to say it. Mingming reads stories every day, Mingming sees what teaching the baby to learn to say, Mingming’s family is playing story machines from morning Read More …

What if the child speaks dirty words? Try these three methods

Teacher Zuo, my child suddenly said very bad words the other day. What should I do? Recently, many parents asked me this. We all don’t want our children to learn to use dirty words well, but it seems that most of the time when we don’t know what, our children will say it themselves and don’t know who they learned from. How did this [dirty words] come about? How do we deal with the child’s dirty words? Today we will have a good talk. Babies use foul language, but they learn it from adults In order to adapt to the new environment, children are born to imitate and learn new things in life. When children find that there are strange Read More …

Have you noticed the three misconceptions of taking your baby to read picture books?

Now many parents will take their babies to read picture books together, hoping to enlighten their babies by telling stories and teach them various social and life skills. Moreover, reading picture books can also strengthen the parent-child relationship and narrow the distance with the baby. Picture books bring babies the spread of knowledge and emotion… But! There is always a but! The way of reading picture books is wrong, even the more you read, the more problems you have. Some mothers will think that there are too few words in picture books and they cannot teach their children how to read. However, the main purpose of reading picture books is not to teach them how to read. Have you been Read More …

Is the baby crying again? 4 Ways to Teach You to Master [Crying Stop Method]

Crying is the most important way for newborn babies to communicate with the world. TA people seek help from their parents through crying. They also express their emotions and consume energy through crying. New parents often cannot distinguish the different cries of newborns, but as they spend more time together, parents can easily distinguish the different cries. Psychological Construction of Parents Xinke’s parents often feel confused about the crying baby, and even feel very guilty and remorse because they cannot appease the baby. On the one hand, the crying of the baby does not directly indicate that the child has been abused or the baby is in a sad state. Parents should not be angry because of the crying of Read More …

Daughter [leg clip], how do parents deal with it?

On the Internet, some parents often ask for help, saying that their children suffer from [leg clip syndrome], run many hospitals, do many examinations, and take many drugs, all of which do not work. So, is [leg clip syndrome] really a difficult and complicated disease? Is what leg clip syndrome? Leg clamping syndrome, also known as [emotional cross leg syndrome] or [child leg wiping syndrome], is actually an obscure term for the term [child masturbation] in China, which is not mentioned in the International Classification of Diseases of the World Health Organization. At the beginning of the last century, Freud’s psychoanalysis school believed that masturbation was one of the causes of neurasthenia and hysteria, and was a harmful behavior. By Read More …

Watch out! The walker may have killed the child.

Hearing the name walker, many parents think it can help their children learn to walk and think it is a good thing. This is not the case. Its danger to children cannot be ignored. What are the hazards of walker? 1. Affect children’s learning to walk It sounds ironic, how can walker delay children’s walking? As early as 2002, studies abroad showed that children who use walkers walk independently later. In the walker, In fact, the weight of the child is all concentrated in the buttocks, the legs are not hard, the toes can move a little, but will affect the development of leg strength. Children in the walker [walking] is toe landing, this is not a normal posture, long-term Read More …

Pornographic information cannot be eliminated. How can I talk about sex with my children?

In such an era of information explosion, [sex], as an important component element, often appears in people’s vision. Although the age limit is imposed on pornographic movies and TV works, there are always some tempting fragments of a few seconds in commercial advertisements, movie trailers and even news programs. These fragments flow to children through various channels and inadvertently become their [alternative] sex education classes. Younger children may only be curious about the fragments, while for older children, parents have to find ways to deal with the strange problems arising from the fragments in their children’s brains. Although it is impossible for working parents to be under 24-hour supervision, if they are prepared in advance and think about countermeasures, it Read More …