Tag: Family

bear

As many as 80% of women will suffer from postpartum depression. How can tragedy be prevented?

According to media reports, on August 23, a 21-year-old mother strangled her 1.5-year-old twin brother and put it into a bag. Then she tied her twin brother to the river and committed suicide, leaving her husband alone who had tasted the taste of her father. This is a typical extended suicide caused by postpartum depression. For a long time, there have been too many tragedies caused by postpartum depression, and cases of family destruction abound. In fact, as long as we can master some knowledge of postpartum depression, such tragedies may not occur. So, for postpartum depression, how should we identify and prevent it? Postpartum depression is right around us. According to statistics, 10% ~ 15% of women will suffer Read More …

bear

Why are parents unwilling to have a physical examination?

More and more people have noticed the importance of physical examination. Many people in the work unit routine physical examination, Also often persuade parents to go to the hospital for physical examination. When parents feel uncomfortable, they will try to persuade their parents to go to the hospital for examination. However, some parents always resist going to the hospital for examination. Let children feel that parents are so stubborn. Why don’t you want to go to the physical examination and the hospital? In fact, do we really understand their thoughts? Idea 1: I am a parent, you have the final say! Prevention is better than cure, Early detection, early diagnosis, early intervention, Prevention is the first step. But if such Read More …

bear

Is the quality of life getting better and better after giving birth to babies an experience of how?

Before giving birth, like many expectant mothers, I also thought that the quality of life would plummet, so I welcomed the arrival of the baby with the mood of facing the hardship and tiredness. However, perhaps because the expectations were too low, now my daughter is one and a half years old, and I actually think everything is fine. Next, let’s talk about my story, hoping to give some help to your mothers. Psychological change Step 1 Be more courageous After giving birth to a child, my biggest change is that I am no longer confused, I have more courage, and I seem to have endless strength. I stopped staying in bed in the morning, and even concentrated more on Read More …

bear

Will the quality of life plummet after having children?

At seven o’clock in the morning, He woke up, Naturally, my father can no longer sleep. Waiting on him to dress, brush his teeth, wash his face, play or read in the morning, eat breakfast. While waiting on him to eat breakfast, He asked him how to arrange today. Yes, it is up to him. Although he is only over three years old, he can’t fool him many times. For example, last night he agreed to accompany him to the amusement park today, and at breakfast he asked him how he would go to the park today. He would say, Isn’t it agreed to go to the amusement park, how can words count? Dad has breakfast on weekends, Take a Read More …

bear

The Things of Pregnancy and Birth: To Mothers-to-be

Do it, you do it Not letting a woman do it is like not letting her breathe air. All right, do it, you do it, but please note: small work is pleasant, big work hurts the body, No Zuo No Die! Yes, but it is better not to lose your temper. According to the saying of traditional Chinese medicine, old anger will [move fetal qi]. Cultivate some hobbies pregnant, Many people begin to stop working and rest at home. It is boring to stay at home every day. It is best to cultivate some hobbies, For example, painting, Calligraphy, Learn music, These elegance is itself a good way to cultivate one’s morality, It is also a good way of prenatal Read More …

bear

The Things of Pregnancy and Birth of Children: To Prospective Dad

I don’t know that good men are trained in how, but I know very well that stupid men are trained in how: reason with women, forget her birthday or wedding anniversary, don’t talk sweet words, don’t spend time with her. You can’t reason with women, women don’t reason with women, only talk about feelings, as long as you feel everything is right, tube TA what bullshit truth! Men, please try not to reason with women, Reasoning is no use, Reasoning hurts feelings, Reasoning hurts the body. Especially after she became pregnant, I can’t reason with her, Reasoning will hurt her and your children, The big deal is 10 months in prison. One from the earth, One is from Mars and Read More …

bear

Family meetings are not as boring as you think.

Many people say that [marriage is the grave of love]. The complicated life makes people exhausted physically and mentally. Without mutual understanding, the boat of marriage turns over. However, some people also say that [marriage is the sublimation of love]. As long as communication is timely as when in love, the happiness of gold and silver marriages is not a myth. Brooklyn and her lover in the United States, like many people, have their own jobs and raise a little baby. They are always troubled by housework and have little time to communicate. In order to make the marriage stronger, they did one thing: sit down according to a fixed schedule and hold family meetings. Let’s follow Brooklyn’s description and Read More …

bear

Regarding the cultivation of outstanding children, foreigners have summed up these 12 experiences.

Many parents have such a wish: I hope the baby will cause less trouble, perform well and be a sensible [little adult] obediently. However, reality often fails to meet people’s wishes, and perhaps there is no perfect guide to teach parents how to cultivate such a child. Don’t despair first. Psychologists have done a series of studies on the families of some excellent children abroad and found that the parents who have cultivated excellent children do not rely on luck. Most of them have such commonalities. Let the children take on the housework. In daily life, we often hear: Baby, all you have to do is play with your mother and do the housework. Children may not be able to Read More …

bear

I’ll teach you a trick to prevent cancer with [love]!

In the summer of 2013, my classmates asked me on the phone. [Brother Xiang, my father has advanced liver cancer. Is there any good way for what? ] [Surgical resection is selected for liver cancer in the early stage. If the operation cannot be resected, it is radiofrequency ablation or interventional embolization. Systemic chemotherapy is generally not recommended.] [My father discovered it in 2012. When he found it, he lost the chance of surgery. Later, he underwent interventional embolization, but now he has metastasis and can only take targeted drugs.] She contacted me again in July this year. [Brother Xiang, is there a big problem with our family’s genes? She was very worried on the phone. [What’s the matter? ] Read More …

bear

Mom and Dad, this sentence of yours hurts more than beating a child.

The so-called [effective] way of discipline A good friend happily shared with me. Recently, she finally found an effective way to discipline: When a child is not good or wants him to obey the rules, just say to him: [If he is not obedient, he cannot play ball or watch cartoons]. As soon as he hears that these things he likes to do may be cancelled, he will immediately settle down without scolding or nagging. Hearing this, I frowned and shouted: -What a terrible method! If I were a child, I would probably hate this feeling very much and feel betrayed. -How can betrayal be involved? -Because I let you know that I like what best, and as a result, Read More …