After having children, 10 possible improvements in the relationship between husband and wife

I’m going to be married for three years, Recently, I learned the good news that many friends are pregnant. In fact, I am also seriously considering having a child. But when discussing with my husband about the changes in family life after having another child, We found that, Everything is worrying. The main problems are the source of income, the development of my career, how to serve my children, not getting a good sleep, And whether our marriage will be threatened. After all, We have heard many stories about the tension between husband and wife after giving birth. But I haven’t heard much about the improvement of the relationship after having children. In order to make the relationship develop in Read More …

Delivery in water is risky, and blindly following the trend is not acceptable.

Because Li Yunmei, a popular actress who plays many Korean dramas such as “My name is Jin Sanshun” and “Little Woman”, On August 4, 2015, she gave birth to a 3.5 kg youngest daughter by water delivery. It became hot news for a while. Star effect is good, One stone stirred up a thousand waves. Li Yunmei’s story immediately triggered a heated discussion about the way people gave birth in water. After watching the news, many young women were melted by the family’s affection of Li Yunmei and left messages saying: “I also want to give birth in water, and I also want my husband to accompany me.” So, what is going on in water? Is water delivery really as Read More …

When is the best time to get pregnant?

Want to have children, but it is not clear whether what is the best time to conceive? In fact, many people are facing such confusion. Many young couples have no idea about [having babies in what] and even feel confused, disappointed and depressed. Even those with good education have to rely on the personal experience of colleagues and elders. If you have professional problems with pregnancy, the wisest choice is to consult your obstetrician before you get pregnant. Next, you are determined the best time to conceive. If you are lucky (or work very hard), you can become a expectant mother in 2 to 3 menstrual cycles! What is the most suitable age to have children when pregnant? Obstetricians and Read More …

Weekly Records of Pregnancy Delivery (3): Is Painless Delivery Really Painless?

In the two hours waiting for the anesthesiologist to come, I relied on the belief that [the anesthesiologist will be here soon], Over and over again, the contraction became more and more intense. Analgesic and painless are two different things. At about 7 o’clock in the morning, with the sound of [gurgling] rollers, Dr. Pei appeared in front of me with a group of people and a large wave of equipment. I looked like a drowning man and saw a straw close at hand. [Hold your knees and form a ball, don’t move when the contraction came! ] According to Dr. Pei’s instructions, I lay in bed, Turn your back to her, The big belly and thighs stuck together with Read More …

The things about pregnancy and childbirth: why do more children have children at night than during the day?

Let’s look at an example first. The first thing many herbivores do after giving birth to their cubs is to eat the placenta and lick the chlamydia and blood on the small animals. The most important reason for doing this is not to let carnivores smell blood. Many carnivores have a particularly sensitive sense of smell. You can smell other animals several kilometers away, If herbivores do not eat the placenta and lick the small animals as soon as possible, It is easy to become a good meal for carnivores. Most carnivores feed during the day. Therefore, herbivores and humans that give birth during the day are more likely to be eaten by tigers and lions. And if the baby Read More …

Pregnancy and childbirth: Can high myopia give birth smoothly?

The so-called high myopia refers to ametropia with myopia degree greater than 600 degrees, accompanied by axial extension, fundus retina and choroidal atrophy and other degenerative diseases becoming the main characteristics. To put it simply, myopia is over 600. If you look at the literature related to high myopia and cesarean section, Most of the literature is from Eastern Europe, Some ophthalmologists will suggest that the delivery method for patients with high myopia should be cesarean section, Because the patient needs to hold his breath for a long time during vaginal delivery, This increases the risk of retinal detachment. The real situation is: Patients with high myopia will have a series of corresponding changes in their eyes during pregnancy. For Read More …

How to scientifically [confinement]

Most Chinese parturients have to have a special [ceremony]-confinement within a few weeks after giving birth. Traditional confinement has many taboos, the most common of which are: keeping warm absolutely and covering your whole body even in summer; Can’t go out or even get out of bed, can’t blow; Can’t wash your face, wash your hair, let alone take a bath or brush your teeth; In terms of diet, we should avoid raw and cold food and eat various [supplements]. Even with modern science and technology, new taboos have been developed that cannot watch TV, mobile phones and so on to avoid hurting eyes. People usually think that the experience handed down from generation to generation must be reasonable. However, Read More …

Thyroid dysfunction, can also [sex] [human]?

Hyperthyroidism (hyperthyroidism for short) and hypothyroidism (hypothyroidism for short) are the most common thyroid dysfunction. However, many young patients are still in their childbearing age, and with the advent of the second child age, they always have a little doubt and worry when eager to be parents. Q: Is the occurrence of sexual desire decline, impotence and premature ejaculation related to thyroid dysfunction? A: Normal and appropriate amount of thyroid hormone plays an important role in maintaining the balance of androgen, estrogen, prolactin and other sex hormones in the body. Once hyperthyroidism or hypothyroidism occurs, Thyroid secretion too much or too little thyroid hormone, the balance between this hormone is broken. It may cause male sexual desire reduction, erectile dysfunction Read More …

[Painless Delivery] Anesthesia Needle, Can It Hit Low Back Pain?

Nowadays, painless childbirth is in full swing, and more than 30% of mothers in some hospitals have adopted painless childbirth when giving birth smoothly. However, such a safe and reliable analgesic technology recognized at home and abroad still encountered many doubts. For example, many parturients and their families are particularly concerned about a problem-will anesthesia for painless childbirth cause postpartum lumbago? Anesthesia King can definitely tell you: Painless childbirth will not cause chronic lumbago after delivery. Is what painless in childbirth? Painless labor is also called [labor analgesia], which refers to the use of some analgesic method to eliminate severe pain during labor, or to reduce the pain during labor to a minimum. It is a simple, easy, safe and Read More …

Is cesarean section a better choice?

Vaginal delivery is a delivery method created by God for human reproduction when he created human beings. However, due to a series of viewpoints circulating in the society in recent years, such as cesarean section is safer, children are smarter, postpartum sex life is less affected, and labor pain can be reduced. As a result, many pregnant women and their families, Make up your mind to have a cesarean section from the day you are sure of your pregnancy. The wrong ideas affect not only ordinary pregnant women, but also medical workers, even doctors, nurses and midwives who work in obstetrics and gynecology. So when some doctors suggest that you have a cesarean section, it is not profitable, but it Read More …