It’s time to enroll the children in interest classes. Which one is better?

Have you been troubled by such questions recently: [I want to enroll my child in an interest class, but how about letting him learn from what? ] I believe that all parents have seen many suggestions like the following in various parenting public numbers or parenting books: When choosing interest classes, you must consult your children. Interest is the best teacher. We must calm down and do not place too much emphasis on the [utilitarian purpose] of textual research and grade examination. We should not use snacks, gifts and prizes to tempt children to persist in learning and cultivate their [internal motivation]. It is strongly recommended that parents follow the class and observe at any time. If they find that Read More …

[Impulse is the devil], educate children to use the right method,

Although Ding Ma often stressed through articles that in the process of educating children, this method should be avoided, but there are still many parents who firmly believe that “a filial son is born under a stick” and “a child cannot be beaten without success”, believing that beating a child is for the good of the child and to prevent the child from going astray. There are also some parents who, although they think it is not very good to beat their children, still hold them in their arms [they still have to beat them when necessary], or when their children are disobedient, they cannot help greeting them. The most common way for these parents is [spanking]. They think it Read More …

Please remember these seven points when playing with western babies.

In the West, no matter babies or school-age children, most of them have playdate–play at least once a week. Usually, the children are taken by their parents to play together in their own or other people’s homes, and sometimes they can also make an appointment in parks and other places. A typical playdate at home has a relatively fixed duration, with snacks, suitable toys and games arranged for children and accompanying adults. Usually there is a tidying-up session attended by all children before the end, more like an informal mini-party. Different from the parties that we often go to classmates’ homes to do homework and find classmates on holidays, western families attach great importance to playdate and even say playdate Read More …

The small town girl became a doctor from a top prestigious school, and the [idle book] that inspired her life was surprising!

Does your child like reading? He loves reading what? Perhaps in our parents’ hearts, we all have a list of books that we want our children to read. We will support and encourage our children to read books that we think are [educational]. If the books our children read are not what we like, will you continue to support and encourage them, or will you simply and roughly prevent them from reading [idle books] in your eyes? Look at the experience of Dr. Pan Wenying, a bioengineer at Stanford University, when he was a child, and you will know how to choose. I was born in a small town in Southwest China where education is not well developed. First I Read More …

How to wear clothes, the baby can’t freeze, don’t catch a cold?

The weather is getting colder and colder, watching the children in the yard, step by step, being wrapped into cotton balls by hemp. At ordinary times they run happily, but now some even struggle to take a step, which really makes people laugh. Do babies really need to wear so many clothes? In the spirit of convincing people with reason, I summed up this article, hoping to help mothers end their pain of [struggling in winter]. How much does the baby wear? More than one parent has such doubts: some places say that dolls should wear one less than adults, while others say that they should wear one more. Which statement is right? The clothes your baby wears should play Read More …

Mom and Dad, this sentence of yours hurts more than beating a child.

The so-called [effective] way of discipline A good friend happily shared with me. Recently, she finally found an effective way to discipline: When a child is not good or wants him to obey the rules, just say to him: [If he is not obedient, he cannot play ball or watch cartoons]. As soon as he hears that these things he likes to do may be cancelled, he will immediately settle down without scolding or nagging. Hearing this, I frowned and shouted: -What a terrible method! If I were a child, I would probably hate this feeling very much and feel betrayed. -How can betrayal be involved? -Because I let you know that I like what best, and as a result, Read More …

Take Eva to relax and don’t let these unnecessary worries torture yourself.

Mothers of the second child may all feel this way: when they gave birth to Dabao, they were extremely nervous, ate countless parenting books and consulted many [former people] around them, but the result was still in a hurry. When pregnant with the two treasures, everything becomes much simpler: bolder and less dogmatic. Yes, Dr. Clove wants to tell everyone: Relax, Eva’s vitality can be tenacious. Most legends [mistakes that must not be made] are to frighten herself. Is the baby serious? Some of the baby’s manifestations are not illness at all, such as [horse tooth] [breast lump] [cockroach mouth], which are all fine and do not need treatment. However, in some cases of illness, there is no need to Read More …

A list of child care

In 2012, the American Board of Internal Medicine launched a nationwide [Smart Choice] campaign to identify medical examinations and treatments that are not necessary or beneficial to patients. More than 50 medical professional groups participated in the campaign. The following is the list of smart choices from the American Academy of Pediatrics: 1. Antibacterial drugs should not be used for definite viral infectious respiratory diseases (sinusitis, pharyngitis, bronchitis); 2. Cough and cold medicines should not be prescribed or recommended for respiratory diseases of children under 4 years old; 3. CT scanning is not necessary for the immediate evaluation of mild head trauma, and whether imaging examination is needed should be determined according to the Clinical Observation/Pediatric Emergency Nursing Applied Research Read More …

Brush teeth correctly in the morning and evening.

Brushing teeth is the basic method to maintain oral health. Proper and effective brushing can reduce bacteria in the oral cavity, remove food debris, reduce caries and gingivitis, and avoid damage to soft tissues and hard tissues of the oral cavity. There are many methods of brushing teeth, each with its own characteristics. None of them is suitable for all people. Children are at the stage of development, and their dexterity of hands is limited, which makes it difficult to master complex brushing skills. We recommend young children to learn and master relatively simple arc brushing methods. The main points are as follows: 1. Under the condition of closed mouth, the toothbrush enters between the outer side of the tooth Read More …

Is it really better for children to be fatter? Mom and Dad, please pay attention

Obesity is a high risk factor for various cardiovascular diseases and endocrine diseases. With the development of society, simple obesity in children has become one of the diseases affecting children’s health. However, due to the aesthetic orientation of China’s social environment and the insufficient understanding of the harm of obesity by society and parents, most obese or overweight children have not received timely intervention. Parents think that children’s good appetite is a sign of health, Most of them worry that their children are too thin, But they don’t realize that the healthy children in their eyes are already in a state of disease. At present, the incidence rate of obesity among children in our country is close to the level Read More …