Tag: Children’s Psychology

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Children often say headache and stomachache. Are they cheating their parents?

Often listen to mothers half fun half helpless complaints: children say playing the piano, headache, stomachache; As soon as I went out to play, I was fine. When I said I was going to do my homework, I had a stomachache and headache. When it comes to watching TV, it’s all right. Children are still not as intelligent as adults. No new what tricks can be made up. However, Parents should pay attention to the fact that, There are statistics abroad, When about 40% of the children said they had a headache or stomachache, Not necessarily an excuse, It is really head or stomach discomfort. To remind parents, If children really often say [headache] [stomachache], We should go to the Read More …

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Is it a language barrier for children to write typos?

A mother contacted me and said she suspected her son had language barriers. The child is seven years old, Recently, I have always written wrong words. The types of mistakes are surprisingly consistent. Many words with left and right structures like [yang], Now he often writes the “day” on the left, which was originally on the right, but sometimes he can write it correctly. I realized that this situation had only started for two months, so I advised the mother not to worry, to go back and observe, and told her that this little mistake was exactly the right psychological development in my opinion. This is not a psychological development problem at all. Children’s memorization of Chinese characters, Especially in Read More …

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Why do babies like sucking their fingers and gnawing their feet? Psychologists’ explanations are more interesting than each other.

I believe mothers will find that the baby has a lovely little trick-sucking fingers. Some babies will suck their fingers, but also suck the back of their hands and arms. Some flexible babies will pick up their feet and chew them, sometimes even suck their fingers to sleep. Why is the baby so fond of sucking his fingers? Why does the baby love to suck his fingers? In fact, finger sucking behavior has not only attracted the attention of parents, but also psychologists have shown great interest in this behavior of babies since they got up very early. Let’s see how psychologists explain this behavior. Freud, Representative of Psychoanalysis: In my opinion, the baby’s sucking fingers is related to his Read More …

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If parents sleep with them, will they sleep out of precocious puberty?

In recent years, reports of precocious puberty in children have emerged one after another. Fast-growing chickens, ripening fruits and vegetables, soya-bean milk and bean products and other foods are probably the most commonly heard. (These foods do not cause precocious puberty, please see here to refute the rumor.) There is even a more [sensational] statement-children sleeping with their parents for a long time can easily lead to precocious puberty. Although children should gradually learn to sleep alone as they grow older, Ding Ma really can’t agree with such reasons as [causing precocious puberty] to frighten people. Therefore, Ding Ma specially invited doctors from the Endocrinology Department of Peking Union Medical College Hospital to talk about the matter. Who is to Read More …

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Hand in hand teaches you the correct posture to encourage your child.

When it comes to children’s education, the importance of [encouragement] is basically mentioned. Encouragement helps to cultivate children’s initiative, self-confidence, self-esteem and anti-setback ability, which are also the core qualities necessary for children to learn all aspects of their abilities. However, encouragement is not as simple as saying a few words [come on] [baby will do it]. How can children be encouraged to achieve the desired results? Next, I will talk about how to effectively encourage children through two personal experience stories. Story 1: My uncle and I when I was six years old When I first started primary school, my little uncle stayed in my house because of his work. At that time, my parents came off work late, Read More …

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Children are timid and lack creativity? This is all the harm… … …

[Son, I am doing this for hello. I don’t listen to the old man and suffer losses in front of me! ] As parents, they always hope to use their decades of life experience to make their children take fewer [detours] and embark smoothly on what they see as a [good road]-more money, less things, less proximity to home, high positions, light responsibilities, and a lifetime of ease. Some choices are a difficult road in the eyes of parents, such as [becoming a doctor]-many doctors always sigh with emotion and never let their children become doctors again-but how can we say with certainty that such choices are wrong? How can you predict the situation in a few decades? How do Read More …

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To take care of children after one year old, we must let the old man know the misunderstanding of taking babies!

Parents often complain about the conflicts caused by the elderly helping to take care of their babies, but parents have to go to work and have no time to take care of their babies. Most of them still have to ask their grandparents/grandparents. Want to ask the old man to share some of the things with her, but feel that all kinds of things can’t be put down? In fact, as long as both husband and wife have the same concept and give the elderly a good shot in advance, grandparents and grandparents can also raise children scientifically with us. What are the misconceptions that old people are prone to have when taking babies? Let’s have a look. This [is Read More …

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If children are not taught to say this word, they will suffer when they grow up.

Lele is a very good baby and will never compete with others for toys. When other children ask him for toys, he always gives them. When he also wants to play, he always watches others playing with his toys eagerly and does not dare to come back. At this time, my mother said that he was too [weak] and did not dare to do so, so she helped him get it back. Although Lele took back her own toy, she was not happy. Obviously, good children like Lele do not know how to refuse. Children who do not know how to say [no] are unhappy. They can only watch their small objects be wanted by other children, but they dare Read More …

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Dried fruits are also good or bad. There are 3 types that are best not to eat!

Speaking of healthy food, many people will definitely think of all kinds of sour and sweet fruits, delicious! However, fresh fruits are not convenient to carry and preserve, so sweet dried fruits become a good choice. However, there are also different varieties of dried fruits, some of which are very healthy, while others hide health risks… Dried fruit is concentrated fruit True dried fruits refer to products that do not add sugar, salt, oil and any food additives. They are the natural state of fruits after drying and dehydration. Including sun-dried, air-dried, oven-dried, freeze-dried… For example, we often eat jujube, raisin, dried longan, persimmon, etc. Compared with fresh fruit, dried fruit loses some water and vitamins (such as vitamin C), Read More …