One of the Mistakes of Good Mothers: Too Tolerant of Children

There are many things on the Internet like [don’t do this to children], Or the saying that “children can be better if they do more of this”. All want to be a good mother, However, on the way to being a good mother, It is likely that some common mantra, old people’s classics and some [positive energy] on the Internet have gone wrong. Accompanying children to grow up is a beautiful word. But I wish to tell mothers and expectant mothers that, The journey to raise children is difficult, There are many bumps and trivial details, It doesn’t happen overnight. Don’t fail to fulfill your responsibility as a parent in the first place, Give correct guidance to children, He also Read More …

A 35-year-old mother who gave birth to a daughter said: How did my father train me?

I have a daughter and I love her. I don’t know if everything I do is what my daughter needs, but I still gradually have more confidence than before. This confidence comes from my more patient listening to my children. Yesterday, I accompanied my child to run her scheduled target in the sun: 6 kilometers. On the way back, she cheerfully told me about the movie she had just watched. In fact, I may not have listened to it, but I nodded from time to time and asked for two sentences. As she walked home from the playground, she chattered and I listened patiently and silently. When approaching the gate of the community, the child said, “Mom, I like being Read More …

Children often say headache and stomachache. Are they cheating their parents?

Often listen to mothers half fun half helpless complaints: children say playing the piano, headache, stomachache; As soon as I went out to play, I was fine. When I said I was going to do my homework, I had a stomachache and headache. When it comes to watching TV, it’s all right. Children are still not as intelligent as adults. No new what tricks can be made up. However, Parents should pay attention to the fact that, There are statistics abroad, When about 40% of the children said they had a headache or stomachache, Not necessarily an excuse, It is really head or stomach discomfort. To remind parents, If children really often say [headache] [stomachache], We should go to the Read More …

Is it a language barrier for children to write typos?

A mother contacted me and said she suspected her son had language barriers. The child is seven years old, Recently, I have always written wrong words. The types of mistakes are surprisingly consistent. Many words with left and right structures like [yang], Now he often writes the “day” on the left, which was originally on the right, but sometimes he can write it correctly. I realized that this situation had only started for two months, so I advised the mother not to worry, to go back and observe, and told her that this little mistake was exactly the right psychological development in my opinion. This is not a psychological development problem at all. Children’s memorization of Chinese characters, Especially in Read More …

Why do babies like sucking their fingers and gnawing their feet? Psychologists’ explanations are more interesting than each other.

I believe mothers will find that the baby has a lovely little trick-sucking fingers. Some babies will suck their fingers, but also suck the back of their hands and arms. Some flexible babies will pick up their feet and chew them, sometimes even suck their fingers to sleep. Why is the baby so fond of sucking his fingers? Why does the baby love to suck his fingers? In fact, finger sucking behavior has not only attracted the attention of parents, but also psychologists have shown great interest in this behavior of babies since they got up very early. Let’s see how psychologists explain this behavior. Freud, Representative of Psychoanalysis: In my opinion, the baby’s sucking fingers is related to his Read More …

If parents sleep with them, will they sleep out of precocious puberty?

In recent years, reports of precocious puberty in children have emerged one after another. Fast-growing chickens, ripening fruits and vegetables, soya-bean milk and bean products and other foods are probably the most commonly heard. (These foods do not cause precocious puberty, please see here to refute the rumor.) There is even a more [sensational] statement-children sleeping with their parents for a long time can easily lead to precocious puberty. Although children should gradually learn to sleep alone as they grow older, Ding Ma really can’t agree with such reasons as [causing precocious puberty] to frighten people. Therefore, Ding Ma specially invited doctors from the Endocrinology Department of Peking Union Medical College Hospital to talk about the matter. Who is to Read More …

Hand in hand teaches you the correct posture to encourage your child.

When it comes to children’s education, the importance of [encouragement] is basically mentioned. Encouragement helps to cultivate children’s initiative, self-confidence, self-esteem and anti-setback ability, which are also the core qualities necessary for children to learn all aspects of their abilities. However, encouragement is not as simple as saying a few words [come on] [baby will do it]. How can children be encouraged to achieve the desired results? Next, I will talk about how to effectively encourage children through two personal experience stories. Story 1: My uncle and I when I was six years old When I first started primary school, my little uncle stayed in my house because of his work. At that time, my parents came off work late, Read More …

Children are timid and lack creativity? This is all the harm… … …

[Son, I am doing this for hello. I don’t listen to the old man and suffer losses in front of me! ] As parents, they always hope to use their decades of life experience to make their children take fewer [detours] and embark smoothly on what they see as a [good road]-more money, less things, less proximity to home, high positions, light responsibilities, and a lifetime of ease. Some choices are a difficult road in the eyes of parents, such as [becoming a doctor]-many doctors always sigh with emotion and never let their children become doctors again-but how can we say with certainty that such choices are wrong? How can you predict the situation in a few decades? How do Read More …

To take care of children after one year old, we must let the old man know the misunderstanding of taking babies!

Parents often complain about the conflicts caused by the elderly helping to take care of their babies, but parents have to go to work and have no time to take care of their babies. Most of them still have to ask their grandparents/grandparents. Want to ask the old man to share some of the things with her, but feel that all kinds of things can’t be put down? In fact, as long as both husband and wife have the same concept and give the elderly a good shot in advance, grandparents and grandparents can also raise children scientifically with us. What are the misconceptions that old people are prone to have when taking babies? Let’s have a look. This [is Read More …