Tag: Children’s Psychology

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From 19: 30 to 21: 30 on January 29, Chen Shi, a child psychological consultant, answered questions about child rearing online (finished)

Hello everyone, I am Chen Shi, a children’s psychological consultant. I am currently practicing in Beijing and am good at children’s game therapy and family psychological counseling. From 19: 30 p.m. To 21: 30 p.m. On January 29, I will have an online centralized question-and-answer session here. If you have doubts about the behavior and upbringing of children aged 2-6, please ask me questions. I will try my best to help you analyze the problems and provide possible solutions. Activity Rules Please ask questions related to [child rearing], such as children’s behaviors that perplex you, children’s emotional problems that perplex you, or difficult-to-solve parent-child conflicts, etc. Forgive the limited time and will not answer cases that are too individualized. In Read More …

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Is it really so difficult for children to do their homework well?

Many parents find it difficult to understand why their children just don’t like to do their homework. It seems that it is obviously a very simple thing and only needs to be completed on time, but the children are repeatedly procrastinating, full of mistakes and even refusing to do their homework. Many parents explain this as their children are too lazy or do not listen to lectures in class, followed by scolding or attending cram schools. However, the result is often that cram schools are not effective and scolding is ineffective. Homework problem, what should I do? What do parents think of their children’s homework? More than half of the parents who come to me to consult their children’s problems Read More …

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Will it affect children’s independence to sleep in separate rooms too late? See what the psychological consultant said

During the growth of their children, I believe many parents have experienced a perplexity-considering how and when to sleep in separate rooms with their children. Let’s discuss some topics related to sleeping in separate rooms. Will sleeping in separate rooms affect children’s independence? According to some experiences, Parents sleep with their children for a long time, It may bring some obstacles to children’s independence. In fact, There is not necessarily a direct connection between the two. Looking back on our childhood, Many people have no conditions to sleep in separate rooms at home, but parents may pay attention to cultivating our independence in other aspects. In fact, it cannot be simply said that sleeping in separate rooms will lead to Read More …

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Will reduplication with your baby lead to a lag in language development?

In the first year of raising children, Almost every parent is looking forward to a commemorative moment: The child speaks the first word clearly. Just as learning to walk independently is to physical growth, Language learning is a milestone in psychological development. When many parents communicate with their babies, Will consciously or unconsciously use a large number of reduplicated words-[car] into [car], [rice] into [rice], [dog] into [dog]. There are some parenting views, which are opposed to this kind of baby tone words typically represented by reduplicated words, and even say [this will lead to the lag of children’s language development]. Is this really the case? What what should parents pay attention to when communicating with their babies? Speaking reduplicated Read More …

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For the sake of their children, divorced parents must not make 4 mistakes.

Divorce is a matter for two adults, but a broken marriage may have a profound impact on children. However, both parents can relieve their children’s pressure in appropriate ways. How can we explain these situations to our children and help them deal with them? What are the mistakes you may make? Let’s talk about what divorced parents should do. How told the children the news of the divorce? It is best for both parents to tell their children about the divorce. Honestly and simply state the facts and skip those unbearable details. You can say: It is very difficult for your mother (or father) and I to get along any more, so we think we’d better live separately. Make sure Read More …

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Parents should be gratified that three-year-old children learn to talk back!

Some parents asked: When I reason with my child, she always talks back and learns to scold her parents. How should I deal with this situation? Why did the status of parents suddenly change? First of all, congratulations to all parents who have been talked back by their children. Judging from the matter of talking back, children’s psychology has reached a new breakthrough point in their growth process. Looking back on when we were young and before we were 3 years old, we all felt that parents were omnipotent. Why not? [I] When I am hungry, my mother will nurse or paste rice. When [I] get cold, my father will wrap [my] body in thick cotton-padded clothes. When [I] cried, Read More …

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Don’t regret missing the golden age of language development: 4 Simple Ways to Cultivate Baby’s Language Expression Ability

Many parents asked me how to improve their children’s social skills. The problem is simple and complicated. It is said that it is simple because on the surface, the social ability in childhood seems to make children more cheerful and more fond of making friends. Said it was complicated, It is because the cultivation of children’s social ability is closely related to their own temperament type, family environment and social environment. There can be no formulaic method. Social skills are a series of comprehensive skills that people need to communicate and interact with each other in work and life. These include language skills, It also includes executive power, decision-making power and self-confidence. For children of different ages, With regard to Read More …

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One of the Mistakes of Good Mothers: Too Tolerant of Children

There are many things on the Internet like [don’t do this to children], Or the saying that “children can be better if they do more of this”. All want to be a good mother, However, on the way to being a good mother, It is likely that some common mantra, old people’s classics and some [positive energy] on the Internet have gone wrong. Accompanying children to grow up is a beautiful word. But I wish to tell mothers and expectant mothers that, The journey to raise children is difficult, There are many bumps and trivial details, It doesn’t happen overnight. Don’t fail to fulfill your responsibility as a parent in the first place, Give correct guidance to children, He also Read More …

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A 35-year-old mother who gave birth to a daughter said: How did my father train me?

I have a daughter and I love her. I don’t know if everything I do is what my daughter needs, but I still gradually have more confidence than before. This confidence comes from my more patient listening to my children. Yesterday, I accompanied my child to run her scheduled target in the sun: 6 kilometers. On the way back, she cheerfully told me about the movie she had just watched. In fact, I may not have listened to it, but I nodded from time to time and asked for two sentences. As she walked home from the playground, she chattered and I listened patiently and silently. When approaching the gate of the community, the child said, “Mom, I like being Read More …