Children often say headache and stomachache. Are they cheating their parents?

Often listen to mothers half fun half helpless complaints: children say playing the piano, headache, stomachache; As soon as I went out to play, I was fine. When I said I was going to do my homework, I had a stomachache and headache. When it comes to watching TV, it’s all right. Children are still not as intelligent as adults. No new what tricks can be made up. However, Parents should pay attention to the fact that, There are statistics abroad, When about 40% of the children said they had a headache or stomachache, Not necessarily an excuse, It is really head or stomach discomfort. To remind parents, If children really often say [headache] [stomachache], We should go to the Read More …

How to overcome the pain of bereavement?

There is no power in the world that can completely erase death and the accompanying sadness from life. We have to learn to accept loss. In the movie “Guanyinshan”, Chang Yueqin, played by Zhang Aijia, fell into great grief after his son died in a car accident. He stayed in the dark garage all day long, guarding the dilapidated car his son was driving in the car accident, Lacrimosa, and even cutting his wrists to commit suicide. Her pain is the sad reaction of people after losing their closest relatives. Everyone’s performance may be different. I once met a patient. After her lover died, she could not cry, as if everything were in a dream. One afternoon, when the sun Read More …

Why do some people still find it difficult to leave after suffering [abuse] in love?

In the last article, we listed some abusive behaviors in unhealthy love relationships, and many people can’t wait to ask: I also know that something is wrong with our love relationship, but we just can’t get rid of it. What should I do? “ In fact, you should know that you are not alone in feeling this way. Many people, when they are in an unhealthy love relationship, will have complicated and contradictory psychology, which is difficult to separate from the party who abuses them, which is very common. So, why is it so difficult to get out of an unhealthy relationship? The idea of [leaving] is contradictory and painful. In a relationship, we may have experienced each other’s meticulous Read More …

Depression, no shame

Depression-the [fashionable] disease of our time. Every once in a while, News of stars suffering from depression will appear in news reports. This [mental illness] once took away superstar Leslie Cheung and not long ago, it was American actor Robin Williams, who caused many people to lament. Depression is an unbearable pain for our society and family in our time. As early as a few years ago, The International Health Organization has listed depression as the world’s leading disabling disease. At present, there are a total of about 300 million depression patients in the world. The harm degree of this very common disease has far exceeded the seemingly [more deadly diseases] such as cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, diabetes and cancer. Read More …

I have insomnia, how to do?

In essence, Insomnia refers to the inability to effectively get enough good sleep. Insomnia can be caused by many reasons. We can compare insomnia to fever, which can be caused by many reasons, and insomnia is also a symptom caused by many factors. When we go to the hospital with illness and fever, the doctor will not only prescribe aspirin for high fever. Similarly, insomnia cannot be treated simply by taking sleeping pills. For the treatment of insomnia, besides drug therapy, the most effective and long-term method is to change the behavior and cognition that lead to insomnia. This method is called cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). The purpose of CBT therapy is to help insomniacs obtain satisfactory sleep by changing the Read More …

Depression, no shame

Depression-the [fashionable] disease of our time. Every once in a while, News of stars suffering from depression will appear in news reports. This [mental illness] once took away superstar Leslie Cheung and not long ago, it was American actor Robin Williams, who caused many people to lament. Depression is an unbearable pain for our society and family in our time. As early as a few years ago, The International Health Organization has listed depression as the world’s leading disabling disease. At present, there are a total of about 300 million depression patients in the world. The harm degree of this very common disease has far exceeded the seemingly [more deadly diseases] such as cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, diabetes and cancer. Read More …

If you are very busy, you can also become a good father.

In today’s society, due to the fierce competition for survival, fathers in ordinary families are busy working hard, and the important task of caring for families and educating children mostly falls on the shoulders of mothers alone. However, the weakening or disappearance of the role of fathers caused by this is very unfavorable to the growth of children. As a competent father, how should we improve? My wife sometimes criticizes me. He said that although I studied developmental psychology, I did not do many things that were beneficial to my children. In and out of my words, I was criticized for being superficial. Perhaps in her eyes, I am like many young fathers in China: In the matter of taking Read More …