Is the child disobedient? Maybe it’s just because you don’t understand [positive upbringing]

Your child is slowly growing up, and suddenly you find that he is not so good. You always say “no” and he is determined to do what he is not allowed to do. Many parenting experts call this stage the “rebellious period of young children”, which is usually around the age of two and a half to three. This time is the germination period of children’s self-awareness. Some parents may use their authority to restrict and order their children, hoping to make them obey. However, there are also some parents who find that children at this stage have valuable independent needs. They are more willing to respect and accept their children’s precious autonomy, give them more choices and guide them Read More …

Will the quality of life plummet after having children?

At seven o’clock in the morning, He woke up, Naturally, my father can no longer sleep. Waiting on him to dress, brush his teeth, wash his face, play or read in the morning, eat breakfast. While waiting on him to eat breakfast, He asked him how to arrange today. Yes, it is up to him. Although he is only over three years old, he can’t fool him many times. For example, last night he agreed to accompany him to the amusement park today, and at breakfast he asked him how he would go to the park today. He would say, Isn’t it agreed to go to the amusement park, how can words count? Dad has breakfast on weekends, Take a Read More …

Correct the name of depression: all happiness that does not face pain is hooliganism.

Recently, people often come to ask me if I can share some psychological related topics. Every time I happily agree, I say that I will share the theme of [depression]. The organizer always looks reluctant and asks: Can you talk about something positive and energetic? I feel awkward, Because in fact, I personally think that among the many psychologically related topics, The so-called [depression] and [unhappiness], Is the most [positive energy] and light. So, I always want to give [depression] a good name, to spin silk from cocoons, See its value. Outstanding people, When I was in college, It is also popular to write letters by hand. Every time I write a letter, I greet each other with my friends: Read More …