Before parents leave, the baby always cries incessantly. What should I do?

Children’s feelings towards their parents can be traced back to their attachment to their mothers during their infancy. Usually, in the first six months of life, the baby will smile at everyone indiscriminately. But in about seven or eight months, they will be afraid when they see strangers. If they are picked up by strangers, the baby will struggle to cry. This is the normal stage of children’s development and is also a manifestation of mother-to-child attachment. Why are some babies more attached to their mothers? The baby’s attachment to his mother varies with his response to the situation. Babies with safe attachment believe that Mother is her own [safe base], They can play by themselves, He also went to Read More …

The baby is crying incessantly. Don’t wait silly. It may be colic!

Doctor, Xiao Bao is 7 weeks old. He was a very quiet child before. From the full moon onwards, it is easy to cry, and it is not unusual to cry for half an hour in a row. For example, when he was lying well, he suddenly began to cry, no matter how coaxed he was. Sometimes, after crying for a long time, we finally turned red and fell asleep when we were too tired to catch our breath. On one occasion, Xiao Bao began to cry obstinately again. I held him upright, let him lie prone on my shoulder, and patted him slowly. The crying stopped gradually. However, I adopted the same method later, but it did not necessarily Read More …

How to use picture books to help children manage their emotions?

Children’s emotional management ability gradually matures in the interaction with the environment. Reading picture books with children can also help children learn to manage their emotions slowly. Next, let’s take a picture book < < Don’t Let Grey Pigeons Drive Buses > >, which is commonly used in children’s psychological counseling, as an example to see the practical application. The story is very simple. The reader is entrusted by a bus driver to guard his car for a while, with special emphasis on not allowing a pigeon to drive the bus. After the driver left, the pigeon came on stage and tried every means to make the readers agree. This is a picture book about emotional expression, which mainly tells Read More …

Will the baby spoil him when he cries?

As a new mother, what should you do when the baby cries? Many people may have told you their clever plan. Among such suggestions, the most destructive one is: [Let the baby cry enough]. This advice rarely works, but it is very common. If blindly followed, it will usually only make the mother numb and cause undue cracks between the mother and the child. Many studies have found that the more time babies spend with their parents, the better the parent-child relationship will develop. Mothers should not make their children cry enough, but they should not always make it an obligation to stop crying. There are no specific regulations on whether or not to let the child cry and how Read More …

When a child cries, his parents are flustered. What can I do?

Many parents are very afraid of their children crying, and their children are upset when they cry. On the surface, although they all cry, the reasons (emotions) for children to cry are different: they cry when they are sad, when they are helpless, when they cry when they are in pain, when they are wronged, of course they cry, and when they don’t scratch, they cry even more… Some parents are extremely anxious when they see their children crying. They cannot help scolding their children, shaking them hard or even beating them. What’s more, some parents will cry even more… The following are some typical mentality of parents: Children cry because of [bad] emotions. Children should get rid of [negative] Read More …

Novice dad, don’t panic, 6 moves to help you get rid of crying baby

Taking care of the baby is not only the mother’s job, but also the father must take part in it. For many new treasure dads, there is such a question, how to deal with the crying baby? The answer is that treasure dads need to pay more patience. Why does the baby cry? Before the baby could speak, Crying is the most important way for them to communicate with the world. As the baby grows up, treasure parents will slowly know what the baby wants to express in every cry. However, many novice parents will feel that the baby’s cries are no different from what’s. The following is what the baby may want to express when crying: urinating; Be hungry; Read More …

A Record of Babies’ Cultivation: The Baby Who Has Just Been Born Crying? Could be flatulence

Our persistence in counting the days has finally come to an end-we are going to have a confinement. Who can understand my mood at this time? Only those who have experienced it! With this pride and arrogance, I took my mother and daughter to eat steak and improve the food in the charming sunset. However, in the evening, before the beef in my stomach was digested, the baby resounded through the sky and carried out crying all night, beating me back to my original shape… All the methods are used up, baby still cries. This is the first night of the moon. I thought the child would milk once or twice at night and sleep until dawn as usual, but Read More …