Tag: Family Education

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Which is better, [only one] or [one more]?

Perhaps [preparing for pregnancy] and [raising] are not the topics of your current life, but having a baby is an experience that most families have. With the opening of the two-child policy, the arrival of the second child and the changes that TA will bring have gradually become matters that young parents need to consider. A few days ago, Dr. Clove and Zhihu jointly held a Zhihu Round Table to discuss the new challenges faced by parents in the process of raising a second child. Want to know more about raising a second child? Welcome to click to read the original text and go to Zhihu Round Table, Methodology for Raising Two Children. [One-child Family] is a product of China’s Read More …

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How can we avoid the shortcoming of “raising children from other generations” to the greatest extent and the whole family work together to raise children well?

In desperation, many families can only rely on the elderly to take care of their children and passively choose to educate their children from generation to generation. In addition to different living habits, there may be discomfort in getting along with each other. Parents are more worried that the improper or even wrong way for the elderly to take care of their children will have adverse effects on the growth of their children. Therefore, even if we rely on the help of the elderly during the day, we should still pay attention to methods and strategies and try our best to create a relatively ideal parenting environment. How to create an environment that avoids the shortcomings of [intergenerational upbringing] to Read More …

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Your height is the starting point of your child. Ordinary families should fight for their father like this.

After entering the job, On more than one occasion, I felt sad for my colleagues from the suburban areas of the N-line: Most of them, even though they work harder than the people around them, have to bear many of the problems of family of origin, such as financial burden. Only when they are gifted or meet the excellent entrepreneurial opportunities of the right time, place and people can they squeeze into the middle class or even the upper class. However, there are very few such people, which we call “counter attack”. This kind of feeling is called [I fought for 18 years to sit opposite you and drink coffee together.] … … Falling on every parent, no one wants Read More …

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Can’t teach children to wear clothes and manage toys? These picture books take you to let your children learn to take care of themselves.

As the baby grows up day by day, parents or caregivers can no longer do everything. If you think the baby is still young, clothes should be put on his body, shoes should be put on his feet, food should be fed to his mouth, toys scattered all over the floor should be tidied up for him… that is that you look down on the little ones in your home! Doing everything on behalf of the baby is actually depriving the baby of the opportunity to develop himself. There is a saying you must have heard: teaching people to fish is not as good as teaching people to fish. It means teaching people knowledge is not as good as teaching Read More …

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Why can Faye Wong, who is high and cold, raise two daughters who are cheerful, sunny and close?

Dou Jingtong wrote a song < > dedicated to his sister Li Yan: For Lola my ear You are lovingly don’t change A pair of half-sisters, whose parents are both big stars, will inevitably be put into the spotlight after divorce, combination and then divorce. The spectators always seem to have malicious speculation, and the sisters’ every move has attracted a lot of discussion. However, it seems that we have never seen rumors of their discord. Everywhere we only see their sweet pictures in the same frame. The love and care flowing in each other’s eyes always seem to overflow the photos. What are the secrets of child-rearing for Faye Wong and Li Yapeng? Love pervades this family. As we Read More …

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Always feel that the baby is disobedient? It’s all because you didn’t do these three things.

You are patient and talk about picture books [with both voice and emotion]. The baby can’t sit still for 3 minutes and runs around the house. You have taught the four numbers of 1, 2, 3 and 4 for more than half a year, but the baby just doesn’t know that 4 is bigger than 1. … … Most of the time, mothers are very helpless and feel that they will never be at the same point as their babies. Sometimes it takes a lot of effort to teach things that the baby will do after a while. Sometimes the baby can’t understand the simple truth. Do mothers feel exhausted but helpless? So how can we educate our babies and Read More …

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Why can children always make me angry easily?

As a new father and mother, when facing our baby, we all hope to be reasonable, considerate, gentle and kind. However, the reality often backfires. Our children seem to have a kind of super ability. They can always arouse our anger [easily] and make us irritable and mad in one second. Why on earth is this? Why can children always annoy me easily? 1. We have unreasonable expectations Perhaps it is because our children behave too sensibly that we will forget that they are only children who have just arrived in this world for a few years. We may subconsciously regard them as adults, ask them to behave according to adults’ standards, and talk to them according to adults’ communication Read More …

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As much as you know about life, children love life as much as you know it.

01 When I was 20 years old, I often exchanged dreams with Dalin. I said: Dalin, I will try my best to make money. I hope that one day my parents can move out of the house with less than 100 square meters. I also hope that when I am 40 years old, I can give my child a suite so that no matter who he is with in the future, he will not sleep on the street. Dalin said: You think so far. My dream is that no matter how big the house is, I will have a good life. It is good to do a job you like and not lose food. Every day when you go out, Read More …

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Daughter [leg clip], how do parents deal with it?

On the Internet, some parents often ask for help, saying that their children suffer from [leg clip syndrome], run many hospitals, do many examinations, and take many drugs, all of which do not work. So, is [leg clip syndrome] really a difficult and complicated disease? Is what leg clip syndrome? Leg clamping syndrome, also known as [emotional cross leg syndrome] or [child leg wiping syndrome], is actually an obscure term for the term [child masturbation] in China, which is not mentioned in the International Classification of Diseases of the World Health Organization. At the beginning of the last century, Freud’s psychoanalysis school believed that masturbation was one of the causes of neurasthenia and hysteria, and was a harmful behavior. By Read More …

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Watch out! The walker may have killed the child.

Hearing the name walker, many parents think it can help their children learn to walk and think it is a good thing. This is not the case. Its danger to children cannot be ignored. What are the hazards of walker? 1. Affect children’s learning to walk It sounds ironic, how can walker delay children’s walking? As early as 2002, studies abroad showed that children who use walkers walk independently later. In the walker, In fact, the weight of the child is all concentrated in the buttocks, the legs are not hard, the toes can move a little, but will affect the development of leg strength. Children in the walker [walking] is toe landing, this is not a normal posture, long-term Read More …