This [Lord Bear], please don’t tease my children like this.

Parents may have experienced their children being teased by relatives or friends around them. You will not be unfamiliar with the following words: [Your mother is going to have a little brother and will not love you in the future! ] [You were picked up by your mother from the garbage.] [Let me hug you, I’ll take you to eat delicious food! ] … … In this article, we call these relatives and friends [Lord Bear]. Why? Because the practices of these relatives and friends are likely to bring some harm to the children’s psychology and even bring a crisis of trust to the whole family. As a parent, due to his partiality, he is embarrassed to directly refuse these Read More …

Which is better, [only one] or [one more]?

Perhaps [preparing for pregnancy] and [raising] are not the topics of your current life, but having a baby is an experience that most families have. With the opening of the two-child policy, the arrival of the second child and the changes that TA will bring have gradually become matters that young parents need to consider. A few days ago, Dr. Clove and Zhihu jointly held a Zhihu Round Table to discuss the new challenges faced by parents in the process of raising a second child. Want to know more about raising a second child? Welcome to click to read the original text and go to Zhihu Round Table, Methodology for Raising Two Children. [One-child Family] is a product of China’s Read More …

How can we avoid the shortcoming of “raising children from other generations” to the greatest extent and the whole family work together to raise children well?

In desperation, many families can only rely on the elderly to take care of their children and passively choose to educate their children from generation to generation. In addition to different living habits, there may be discomfort in getting along with each other. Parents are more worried that the improper or even wrong way for the elderly to take care of their children will have adverse effects on the growth of their children. Therefore, even if we rely on the help of the elderly during the day, we should still pay attention to methods and strategies and try our best to create a relatively ideal parenting environment. How to create an environment that avoids the shortcomings of [intergenerational upbringing] to Read More …

Will diapers affect the baby’s reproductive function? When should diapers be stopped decisively?

No matter what the climate is, there is a problem of child-rearing that is always hot. If it is in summer, it will be even more fermentative. That is, do you want to wrap the baby’s diapers all the time? Once geometry, this problem was the fuse of the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law said: How uncomfortable it is for Xiao Yazi to wrap thick diapers on her buttocks. It smells like coquettish when she is pulled open. Moreover, many babies also have red buttocks. This is simply intolerable, let alone in summer. Or diaper or pee well Daughter-in-law said: Don’t mention the urine, basically will bring a little force, diapers will soon get wet, and have to Read More …

Children under the age of 6 are easy to swallow batteries by mistake. Parents should really pay attention to it.

When children first know the world, they especially like to use their mouths to perceive it. They want to put all kinds of things into their mouths, whether it is food or not. What worries parents most is that children sometimes even swallow things that are not food. If the children in the family swallow some small things by mistake, parents should not only be careful that the small things swallowed get stuck in their throats, causing breathing difficulties, but also pay attention to the fact that if they swallow batteries, even if they do not get stuck, they should never take them lightly. There has been a news report on such a thing: The 3-year-old girl swallowed button cell, Read More …

Do children need DHA supplements?

Parents all hope their babies can be healthy and intelligent, and DHA, known as “brain gold”, has received special attention from parents. However, is DHA really that magical? Does the baby need DHA supplements? Today, Dr. Clove will tell you about the DHA supplement for babies. What is good about DHA? In short, DHA can help baby’s nerve and vision development. The full name of DHA [docosahexaenoic acid] belongs to-3 unsaturated fatty acid. It has long carbon chain and many double bonds, and is closely related to the development of brain nerves and vision. Studies have shown that adequate DHA intake by mothers during pregnancy and lactation can promote the development of baby’s nerve, vision and immune system and long-term Read More …

How do babies do passive exercises? Do it!

[Passive Exercise] There is also a name called [Baby Exercise], which is suitable for every baby one month after birth. The purpose of doing baby exercises is not to make the baby smarter in the future-I can’t help but spit out a groove: any parenting promoted by [smart] is a poison. Because this statement takes advantage of most parents who are eager for quick success and instant benefits, it will only make the truth look like flowers in a fog. Why do you need to do exercises for full-term babies? Baby exercises are suitable for every baby. Yes, every baby. The reason is to help parents find out whether the baby has muscular tension abnormalities in the process of doing Read More …

Parents need to pay attention to these when playing with water in summer.

In the scorching summer, Ding Ma looked at the exceptionally bright sunshine outside the house. She really couldn’t lift the courage to accept [the grace of the sun] outside. If you can enjoy the cool water, whether it is swimming pool, water park, lake or beach, you will feel cool and comfortable. In summer, not only adults like water’s edge, but also children like to play in places with water. Do you need to pay attention to what when taking your children to play with water in summer? Let Ding Ma come together for everyone. Where there is water, attention should be paid to safety. Safety has always been the first priority when going out to play. Summer is also Read More …

The kitchen can also become the second classroom, and children’s creativity can also be cultivated in this way.

In most families in China, it is simply impossible for children to participate in cooking. [The baby is so small, how can they cook? They are making trouble in the kitchen.] [There are so many dangerous things in the kitchen, how dare you let the little baby into the kitchen, in case of injury.] However, in kindergartens and families in Europe and the United States, it is becoming more and more popular for babies to have cooking activities and participate in the production of three meals. Is it really good to let children participate in food production? What abilities can children develop in the process of making food by themselves? Cooking education can develop children’s abilities in many aspects. 1. Read More …