Tag: Psychology

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Talk to children about sex, it will affect their whole life.

Children aged four or five have entered the school age. At this time, the content of [sex] topics that children care about depends on their physical and mental development and previous enlightenment education. If parents completely avoid talking about such questions, even if children no longer ask, they will explore the answers themselves. The American Academy of Pediatrics listed the questions that children aged 5 to 9 may ask and what they should know to help parents deal with them calmly. During this period, children’s problems about [sex] will become more and more clear and detailed like those about other things in the world. They may ask: How does the baby get into the mother’s belly, Issues related to physiological Read More …

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Talk to your child about sex, never too early

We have already mentioned in the article “Talk to your child about sex, he didn’t pay for it.” Sex is a part of our life. Parents need not worry that it is too early to communicate with their children on the topic of [sex]. Before starting a conversation with preschool children, Parents need to make some preparations. However, don’t try to prepare answers to all the questions. The most important thing is to listen carefully to the children asking what questions and help them find answers with an open and tolerant attitude. To let children know that [sex] questions are not [bad] questions, you can ask your parents. What questions do preschool children ask about sex at different stages? What Read More …

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How to overcome the pain of bereavement?

There is no power in the world that can completely erase death and the accompanying sadness from life. We have to learn to accept loss. In the movie “Guanyinshan”, Chang Yueqin, played by Zhang Aijia, fell into great grief after his son died in a car accident. He stayed in the dark garage all day long, guarding the dilapidated car his son was driving in the car accident, Lacrimosa, and even cutting his wrists to commit suicide. Her pain is the sad reaction of people after losing their closest relatives. Everyone’s performance may be different. I once met a patient. After her lover died, she could not cry, as if everything were in a dream. One afternoon, when the sun Read More …

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Care for the elderly is not only their health.

Life is a wonderful one-way journey. When we were young, we always hoped to grow up quickly. But once upon a time, In middle age, I began to hope that time would slow down. Don’t get old so soon, Because we think of old age as being slow in movement and sluggish in mind. At the end of the day, I had to retire. Then wait for the moment when life falls. Aging brings not only physical deterioration [birth, aging, illness and death], which are the four helpless things in life. Among them, [old] is also a must for more and more people. As one gets older, The decline in body function is inevitable. At the same time, Certain brain Read More …

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Losing weight always fails? Why can’t I control my desire to eat?

On a hot summer day, eating ice cream is enough to enjoy yourself. In the cinema, if there is no delicious popcorn, then watching the movie will not feel. Open the desk drawer, all kinds of biscuits, chocolates and nuts also seem to remind us where our work energy comes from. But do you know that a tin of drinks contains 10 spoons of sugar? The more honest the taste, the higher the fat content of ice cream, All kinds of cakes and fast food provide calories and at the same time give us an overload of fat. You may say that vegetable salads are always healthy, but the salad dressing and Thousand Island dressing in them contain no less Read More …

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Dabao is not good to Er Bao. It’s not that he doesn’t understand. In fact, it’s all the parents’ fault.

Editor’s Note: Not long ago, there was a news report that a 13-year-old girl was extremely capricious because she was spoiled by her family. After learning that her mother was pregnant with a second child, she forced her parents to give up her second child by suicide. In the end, her mother had to choose to have a baby. Although some parents may not be willing to admit it, from the psychological theory of family relations, Dabao’s resistance to the two treasures is the whole blame, but in fact it is still up to parents to bear the blame. This pot is divided into two types: Short-term pot: Parents failed in their communication with Dabao in the event that Dabao Read More …

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These four methods of educating children are not helpful to you.

Threatening Safety Education Parents are most concerned about their children’s life safety, but the most common practice for parents in China is to use various exaggerated horror stories to educate their children on safety. But intimidation will erect a barrier to children’s growth. When I was carrying out safety education for first-grade children, I found that when I asked [why can’t I do this], the answer was polarized: One answer is [because bad people will hurt you/burn you/electrocute you/burn you to death] and the other is [because bad people may hurt you/electrical appliances will make your face ugly, you have to take injections and medicine, you are also very uncomfortable/fire will burn your new clothes out, and you have to Read More …

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Can’t say [no], feel inferior to others everywhere, what should we do?

As we said earlier, the core performance of low self-esteem is to pay special attention to other people’s evaluation. All the efforts made together are to be recognized by others and have no principles. This is the [source of negative energy] for people with low self-esteem. In order to eliminate this small flame of negative energy, what can we do about what? Learn to say no to others Helping others is a good thing, but are you really happy after every helping act aimed at pleasing others? If the answer is no, then bravely say [no]. If you cannot refuse directly, try the following three methods: Explain the reasons why you cannot help, such as traveling with your children on Read More …

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These ten words, the examinee’s parents must not say…?

In a few days, it will be the annual college entrance examination war. Candidates are making final preparations for this important examination, and parents are not idle. Open the news, We can see various versions of the “Must-read Manual for Parents of Candidates”, “Guide for Parents of Candidates to Take the Examination”, “Precautions for Parents Before and After the College Entrance Examination” and so on circulating on TV and on the Internet. These manuals guide parents on how to create a harmonious family atmosphere before the exam, help the examinees adjust their work and rest, and ensure the balanced nutrition of the examinees … (Well, it seems to be saying that Dr. Clove himself …) Even parents should be very Read More …

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Do you often have bad emotions when taking children? Happy mothers all know these magic weapons for decompression.

Before every woman became a mother, we all fantasized that if we gave birth to a daughter, we would have a more intimate best friend, and if we gave birth to a son, we would have a more flower protector. I think about it, and I think the future is very beautiful! However, in the first year after giving birth to a child, too many mothers have expressed such a heartfelt wish: only after giving birth can they know how bad life is. I was a victim When I was a child, I also suffered [injuries]. I walked all the way from a key high school to a key university, and everyone praised my mother for her good child-rearing and Read More …